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Thread: maybe I just have cold feet...

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    maybe I just have cold feet...

    i've been in a relationship almost 6 months now. We've had our ups and downs, but we still have stuck together. I really do like and enjoy my boyfriends company. Lately, I have been looking at other guys. I sometimes feel like our relationship doesn't have passion anymore. I don't want to be with anyone else... But how can I stop myself from cheating?

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    I don't know, just, uh, don't have sex with men other than your boyfriend?

    If you really need help with how to "stop yourself from cheating" then maybe you should just break up with your boyfriend. You don't seem like you're the "relationship type."

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    I don't want to have sex with other guys. I'm just asking for advice on how to feel more passionate. You donlt have to act stuck up. I just like to make out and touch. Something I don't feel I get enough of from my bf so I seek it out else where. I don't want to really, but I crave the attention.

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    you know what **** it. I shouldn't be asking advice from people on the internet anyway. Thanks a lot.

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    Okay, honey, I'm sorry for being a bitch. I'm going to try again.

    If your boyfriend isn't doing enough for you in the romance department, you need to talk to him about it. If he cares about you, he'll try to make you happy.

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    I don't know how to bring it up.

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    You've got to learn how to bring up things that bother you. It's very important.

    Try something like, "Hey, I really like kissing you and making out and stuff, but I wish we could do it more often/harder/better/faster/stronger."

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    If you care for the relationship that you have with him then you need to communicate, to try to improve things, to let him know that things aren't perfect for you. Or you just leave him and find somebody else.

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