I am now socially acceptable to date?

[Franklin]

Hello everyone! It's been a long time since I last posted on the forums. If you don't remember me then here is my last dating topic.
[url]http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/36399-i-cannot-attract-women.html[/url]

I'm still dateless.

I believe I have a lot to offer in a relationship. I'm currently in college with two or maybe more years left(I might stay to get a teaching degree). I'm caring, confident, humorous, and smart. I have leadership positions on campus in a few national student organizations. My interest are Brett Favre, the Lakers, NBA, NFL, college sports(I go to local games), video games, comedy movies, horror movies, and food because real men eat! People compliment my clothes because I'm a good dresser. I'm 6'0 and in shape at 173lbs.

Yet, even with these qualities I haven't been able to attract a single woman. My main problem is physical chemistry. Women do not find me physically attractive. I had an ear deformity that made my ears stick. However, I recently had surgery to get my ears reconstructed. Although it will take a while to see my full results because my ears are still sore and haven't fully heal, the difference after surgery is noticeable.

So I just want to know if I am now attractive and socially acceptable to date. Here are my before and after pictures through the past 4 years to today. What kind of woman would like a man like myself?

2006 Senior Picture
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Summer of 2007 at an amusement park.
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Spring of 2009
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Fall of 2009
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2011 post surgery
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[MerryH]

If you can't get women, it's not because of your looks. You are not unattractive. It's time to stop blaming your lack of dates on your physical appearance - you're not ugly enough for that. It's something else.

Do you ever ask girls out on dates?

[Franklin]

Yes, I ask girls out on dates. I use my humor and charm on girls. My main problem is the lack of physical chemistry. A lot of girls have told me that they like who I am as a person. They're just not physically attracted to me.

[xxazurexx]

I agree.

You aren't unattractive, so it's something else.

If people only got dates and based on looks, then why do I see loads of unattractive people in relationships/or married?

[MerryH]

Yes, I ask girls out on dates. I use my humor and charm on girls. My main problem is the lack of physical chemistry. A lot of girls have told me that they like who I am as a person. They're just not physically attracted to me.

I really have a hard time believing that you've had a lot of girls actually tell you that you're not physically attractive.

How many girls have you dated?

[sweetkissesforu]

If you can't get women, it's not because of your looks. You are not unattractive. It's time to stop blaming your lack of dates on your physical appearance - you're not ugly enough for that. It's something else.

Do you ever ask girls out on dates?

i agree with you

[Franklin]

I really have a hard time believing that you've had a lot of girls actually tell you that you're not physically attractive.

How many girls have you dated?

I haven't dated anyone. I've always been rejected based on my looks. Women don't show any attraction towards me.

[CynthiaC]

You are not attractive to me nor you are unattractive, you are just "ehh". Me being a hot female that I am, I would not spend extra time with you. On your looks you're a 4/10-5/10.

But I can see how an unattractive woman could be attractive to you for your degrees.

Just lower your expectations, maybe you are aiming for too high?

Have you tried craigslist?

[the_robot]

You are not attractive to me nor you are unattractive, you are just "ehh". Me being a hot female that I am, I would not spend extra time with you. On your looks you're a 4/10-5/10.

But I can see how an unattractive woman could be attractive to you for your degrees.

Just lower your expectations, maybe you are aiming for too high?

Have you tried craigslist?

Woaah. Another great post by you. You are really showing how great you are on your posts.

[Franklin]

You are not attractive to me nor you are unattractive, you are just "ehh". Me being a hot female that I am, I would not spend extra time with you. On your looks you're a 4/10-5/10.

But I can see how an unattractive woman could be attractive to you for your degrees.

Just lower your expectations, maybe you are aiming for too high?

Have you tried craigslist?

I'm a 4-5/10 before or after surgery? What's wrong with my looks? Thanks

I won't date someone who is interested in my money or just wants to invest in my future degrees.

I haven't tried Craigslist. I did try online dating a few years ago at Plenty of Fish. My looks were rated a one or a two so I left the site.

[CynthiaC]

I'm a 4-5/10 before or after surgery? What's wrong with my looks? Thanks

I won't date someone who is interested in my money or just wants to invest in my future degrees.

I haven't tried Craigslist. I did try online dating a few years ago at Plenty of Fish. My looks were rated a one or a two so I left the site.

Get some muscles especially upper body, wear dark clothes solid clothes-professional looking, have a gold chain, wear 2-inch or 3-inch elevator shoes (this will make women swoon to you), wear a masculine deep musky cologne, and get a punch of confidence.

You're like Britney Spears in 2007, but you have the potential to be Britney Spears 2003 or 2010. You're not ugly that requires plastic surgery, you're just blah.

You don't seem to have money yet since you haven't have the degrees??

Women aren't going to be interested in money when they are with you, at least not right now.

After surgery

before surgery you were like 3/10.

[Petit Papillon]

Cynthia just shut up. What an annoying troll. You're under observation now.

[CynthiaC]

Cynthia just shut up. What an annoying troll. You're under observation now.

I am the only one who is giving advice...

just banned me then, and let this guy be deluded on what women want then?

[xxazurexx]

Woaah. Another great post by you. You are really showing how great you are on your posts.

TROLL my dear.

[the_robot]

TROLL my dear.

I sure hope so. If there's really someone like that, I don't want to ever come across that person.