Me and my ex dated almost 5 years and she broke up with me about 4-5 months ago. I spoke to her loosely for a month or so after the break up and we held hands kissed etc but then I broke contact completely because I felt like she was toying with me. Since then she basically dropped off the face of the earth and the only way I knew she was still even alive was that she works 5 minutes from my house and I see her at work when I have to drive by.
Anyway about 3 days ago my ex randomly texted my best friend Natalie and asked how she was doing and that she misses her. Thing is my ex and her were friends but mainly because I was a mutual friend, they were never close or ever hung out alone. They didn't talk about anything specific really, no mentioning of me but I feel its weird she contacted her especially because they didn't talk at all when we broke up. And Nat and I never hooked up and won't, but we do hang out a lot and everybody knows that, so I doubt my ex would think we were hooking up, if that makes a difference.
What's also weird is the night before my ex texted her, I was talking to Nat about her and how much I really do miss her and stuff and the next day she gets the text; "Hey Nat just wanted to say hi and see how you were doing, I miss you." They talked about small stuff and Nat mentioned to me that she may have my ex do her hair (she's a hair stylist obviously) and the next day my ex texted her again; "hows your hair haha." Like she's reading our minds almost...not really.
They haven't talked in the last two days but it still got my head going in all directions. Honestly I miss my ex a whole hell of a lot, I've talked to many girls since her and just can't move on 100%. I'm not waiting for her but I would like to be with her again. Before I stray off topic though, is there any significance to my ex contacting one of my closest friends out of nowhere?