Originally Posted by
Take2
I doubt the qualities of your ejaculate are relevant here.
I didn't like to give bjs to my ex-husband. I like to give them to my boyfriend. That is NOT because they taste or feel different (they don't). I can't even say that it is because my boyfriend is much hotter than my ex was. My boyfriend strikes me as sexier, but I don't think that is it, either.
For me, the primary difference that factors in is that my boyfriend is a much more generous lover. He doesn't beg me for anything, he just gives me everything. He is so incredibly focused on my pleasure, and it gives him pleasure to turn me on...and I find that I thoroughly WANT to do things that might turn him on more. My ex was all about telling me what he wanted, asking me to do what turned him on, directing my movements while we were having sex, correcting, sitting back and waiting for me to make the first move. I became resentful during sex, resistant to his requests and more demanding for my own pleasure because if I didn't tend to it, it wouldn't happen.
I don't know if that is a factor for you and your girl, but I can tell you it is a possibility. And I have never met a woman who preferred one man's ejaculate over another's for the texture or taste. Unless you have a disease or a really odd diet, there isn't that much variation.