This is for all of the ladies. I just finished reading a forum from another website that was ripping this poor guy to shreds! Do you know what the topic was? It was should I leave my girlfriend because she won't loose weight. I would like to share my current situation and opinion.
Ladies would you agree that relationships are the combination of physical, mental, and spiritual connection? If you have those three things, it is pretty certain that you have found your soul mate. Now I figure that for most relationships, this is what happens at the beginning, but what about longevity wise? What happens after it has been 1 year, the lady of the relationship starts to feel comfortable? She starts to put on some weight and to the male attraction starts to leave the picture? What then?
I'm currently in the same situation with my lovely girlfriend. Let me emphasize this, I LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND! I love her to death. And I'm starting to feel distressed because physically I'm starting to loose physical, sexual attraction with her. This is something that I can't hide. During the day we joke around, play around, laugh, snuggle, cuddle, kiss but when it is time for real intimacy... problem comes in. My friend down stairs doesn't get excited enough. So what happens then, she gets frustrated. Now I have already told her how much I value fitness. I could understand if I was a slob and let myself go, but I workout regularly and hardcore. She looks at me often like she wants to devour me. I use to feel the same way about her but she's put so much weight on I can't help it. So am I shallow because the man downstairs will no longer cooperate?
Women often say you should love your woman no matter what. Well I do love her but let me ask you this? Let's say you were dating this guy for a year abstaining from sex. Everything is absolutely great! He makes a sufficient amount of money, he's handsome, generous, caring, loving and a romantic. The night has finally come for some real physical romance! Blood is pumping and you're so excited you can't stand it. He pulls his pants down and it's no bigger than a inch and it's fully erect!!! What now? You love him don't you? How do you feel about him now? What does the future hold for you two, be honest? Or what about if you're in a club enjoying yourself. Out from nowhere comes a guy that is the height of 5ft, and you're 5'7? Would you ignore him because he's to short? Would you even give him a chance? So you get my point, if you tell us guys that we are just shallow, then what about those examples I illustrated. PHYSICAL ATTRACTION IS ABOUT HUMAN NATURE. So I just wonder why women beat us guys up so much about this. Please can somebody educate me