wel its been over 2 years since i started dating "Lily" and just two weeks ago we had out long distance break which she describes as "having a break" becuase she couldnt handle the feelings....which im still confused over. anyway i've decided to take her on a date again as she openly admits she really likes me, (we were engaged). Anyway my plan was that id drive to her place as she lives five hours away ( this is what caused the split, the fact that she moved back to her parents for her job which is 5 hours away ) any way i'd drive there and pick her up from uni, take her home to get changed and whatnot, take her to an italian restaurant on the waterfront and afterwards have a limo pick her up and take her to the top of mount eden....only problem is, that i wanted to ask her back at the top of the mountain but i have no idea what to say, the first time was easy as, we were younger and i just rattled out the words asking her out and she said yes, and the asking her to marry me at 3am on a lonely beach was pretty easy aswell....but asking her but has made my mind go blank.....i was going to write her a poem and say it to her but i dunno if thats a good idea or not.....i never ust to be able to do poems and thats why i failed it at college but since the split i've become very poetic lol.
does my approach seem reasonable? over the top? or too pushy? i really have no clue at the moment as im still giving myself the bash over loosing someone that was so dedicated to me, and i was so dedicated to her.
any ideas, tips or hints guys?