I been with my gf for over 2 years, she has 3 children from her previous marriage and I can't stand it when she gets angry and makes mountains out of ant hills. Let me give you an example, I just arrived at a party at my friends house, and I get text that children's friends are coming over and that its giving her a headache. I reply. Then few minutes later she tells me that she was not prepared for he children's friends and she needed to get some food and cant leave the house because of the children, when was I driving up to her house. Her oldest is 15years old. I reply well order pizza pick it up or deliver have it delivered and I be heading up be about at her house around 6. She then replies to me that I don't care about her and I care about my friends more then he. She thens says you know I'm not feeling well and you still don't make a effort come up earlier. Now my reason for for not heading up earlier is first I have a package I am waiting for to arrive, driving from where I was would take me about 1+ during rush hour (would take me 30min max) and then I just got to my friends house for a party. So I leave after 1hr after I get to my friends house and trek it to my parents house to pickup the package. I took me 1.5 hrs to get to her house, when I get there she not there and I call her she does not answer and I call her daughter and she tells me they are dropping off her little sisters friend and heading to her grandmothers house to eat. I meet them there and guess what she never ordered any food whatsoever,(she had frozen pizza at home) and then they order pizza at her moms. She was pissed at me and I said are your really serious about being mad this? First you ask me to drive 1.5 hrs to help you get food? Its not an emergency if it was like hey my water heater broke and its pouring water or my kid fell and to take her to the hospital. She goes you don't care and don't ever ask me to do anything for you, and I said I don't ever ask anyone to do anything like that if I could do it myself then would to ask someone to drive 1+ in traffic to order food for me. The next day her children's aunt came over to take them out to eat, she did not speak a word to me she just left the house. I have not talked to her since. I lover her but, to me that is so immature. If she thinks I should apologize for anything she got another thing coming, I am always the one apologizing even when she wrong. Why because she said majority of the time I'm not wrong.