Do you guys ever feel like its never gonna happen.

[Ryan Heitzman]

I'm a guy asking another guy's advice.

[the_robot]

What are you talking about?

[Ryan Heitzman]

I mean just finding somebody to spend the rest of your life with. Has anyone had this discouragement before? I'm not feeling this way right now. I just wanna feel like I'm not alone in this respect.

[Ryan Heitzman]

Actually. This is such a dumb question. Can anybody delete this thread?

[lennox]

not a dumb question. most dudes ponder this, but are afraid to ask their friends.

it's better for you to ask now. i'm sure you've seen a lot of married dudes who live lives of quiet desperation.

they married the wrong girl and end up in a situation they don't want to be in.

why? because they thought they were running out of time.

i ponder this question too and went on missions to seek, attract and seduce women.

my experience is- if you have to chase, it is not worth it.

i'm trying to better myself, maintain discipline, stay healthy and do my own thing.

the older i get, the more i recognize that if you love and respect yourself first, the (right) women will be attracted to you.

and...i make a rule not to make moves out of desperation, from a position of weakness, and neediness.

2 cents man. hope it helps

lennox