I've never actually been in a relationship, but have been heart broken.

[Ryan Heitzman]

I've been rejected many times because of my shyer and nicer personality. I'm doing something about my physical though.

I just don't know what to do when I see a girl I like. I get nervous and panic. I always lose the battle.

[Ryan Heitzman]

I'm not just venting either. I just want my guardian angel to come.

I mean I'm 22 years old. I think I waited enough.

[vertical_sky]

I've been rejected many times because of my shyer and nicer personality. I'm doing something about my physical though.

Getting rejected because of your shyer personality... maybe. Shyer is sometimes misinterpreted as not interested. But "nicer" personality? Where exactly do you get that?

[Ryan Heitzman]

What do you mean by " Where exaclty do you get that". Do you mean where to find a nice guy? I'm a little slow in the head sometimes.

[Ryan Heitzman]

I think I get it now. You think I'm a total dick. That's fine. I can be a total dick sometimes, I know.

[sweetkissesforu]

Relax dont think so much about it life is what you want to make of it

[vertical_sky]

I think I get it now. You think I'm a total dick. That's fine. I can be a total dick sometimes, I know.

Um... not even vaguely. I meant, where do you get the idea that it's your nice personality that got you rejected?

[Ryan Heitzman]

Sorry I miss calculated you vertical. I don't know to answer your question.

[vertical_sky]

Sorry I miss calculated you vertical. I don't know to answer your question.

Then how can you say "I got rejected because of my shyer and nicer personality" ?

[Ryan Heitzman]

It doesn't really matter vertical. I just gotta realize my mistakes and learn from them.

[Boisdevie]

When I was young I was often rejected by women. Often with the phrase 'I like you but........." The only solution is to find someone who wants to go out with you and
Work on your self confidence - self help books perhaps?

[Ryan Heitzman]

You do know that my self confidence won't just change overnight, right? This has been my worst attribute in life. Like I said, I need to move forward and learn from my mistakes.

[Yet another guy]

I think I know how you feel Ryan. I'm 24 and shy to the point that I can't even start a conversation with girls, let alone ask them out. Recently I managed to overcome this with great effort and asked a girl out. I fell deeply in love but she wasn't interested. I don't know if that's because I was too nice but its common (mis?)knowledge that women don't like nice men.

So, I obviously don't have any solutions for you but I just wanted you to know that there are other shy, heartbroken guys around.

[Ryan Heitzman]

I would just like to point out Yet another guy that I congradulate you on your success on braking out of your shyness.

Ishoudln't of said I was she I just ment I was a nicer guy.