i fell in love with a famous person and i am getting obsessed!?

[NLL]

Everything started when i met that singer of a famous english band randomly. He was just looking at me and i hadn't even noticed that it was HIM! After that day he found me and sent me a message on facebook telling me that he remembered me and that i caught his attention. I was sooo excited! Anyways we were chatting quite often and one day he asked me to meet up. He was so sweet with me, he kissed me and he told me that it would be better not to go out the next day because he was about to go touring and that would be awkward for him. That meant that he really liked me and he didn't want to get hurt. I wasn't really into that band that period but i started to like their music very much. It became my favorite band. He was touring for one year, in 20 different countries but we were still talking. He seemed really interested in me. When he came back we met again and we had a very intense night. He confessed, that he really liked me and he wanted to keep going out with me but we couldn't have a serious relationship as he was always away touring. Also he said that it is not possible not because he wanted to do something with other girls but he needed to focus on his band. He said he was the only one that had so much work. He writes the lyrics, the music, everything. He wasn't able to have someone else except his music on his mind. Anyways. now i think i am obsessed. I watch his every step! I can't stand thinking that there are so many fans around him. However i know that whenever he is back home, he arranges a meeting with me. I go pretty often to his gigs as i am on his guestlist but he is not very hearty when we are in public. When we are alone he is so protective, he seems that he cares for me. I am afraid that even if i want to find someone else he won't be as good as him because he is famous as well. And that is so attractive!

[Kaius]

Ummm... I guess if you are okay with him sleeping with other women, and you being one of these many women, then it's cool.
It's mutually consented. It's not serious. So why obsess over it?

[madotnw_nihs]

I am not sure anyone on this forum will understand and feel what you are going through. My question to you is what do you want to happen in this relationship. I don't think you can realistically envision getting married to him. If you just want to be with him cause he his famous and he makes your heart flutter, then just know that's what it will be. You don't know how long it will last. Also note that he most likely have other women. As long as you know what you want from this, you can decide what to do.

[RdHrshyKss]

i wanna know who it is!!!

[xxazurexx]

^Yeah me too - being I'm in the UK.

Really famous English band? Could be anyone.

One thing for sure, I wouldn't take him seriously. Not if he's 'that' famous. He will have females throwing themselves at him everywhere.

If he pisses you off, then you could always do a 'kiss and tell' to the News of the World I guess.....lol

[NLL]

haha sorry guys i cannot say his name. It is not that popular for everyone. If someone likes music like british indie he definitely knows this band.

[RdHrshyKss]

haha sorry guys i cannot say his name. It is not that popular for everyone. If someone likes music like british indie he definitely knows this band.

can you give any hints for the people who might know? you're killing me here.

as for advice, be very cautious. like everyone else has said he probably has a bunch of girls all over the place...especially if he tours a lot. i'm not saying he doesn't like you, he probably does being that he's put all the effort to meet up with you every time he's back home, but don't take it too seriously. even if he wasn't seeing anyone else (which i doubt) he probably won't be able to give you the time and attention you need for a relationship. just take it as it is, have fun and don't expect that he isn't dating anyone else until he makes a commitment to you (which probably won't happen).

now, hints please?

[VincenzoG91]

Please tell me that it isn't Mark E. Smith of The Fall.

[RdHrshyKss]

i think i know who it is!!!! can i send you a pm to confirm? i don't want to post it up on here if it will make things weird...

[NLL]

yes you can

[RdHrshyKss]

sorry i can't send a pm.
you are really really close..but no. I was talking exactly about that misunderstanding but it wasn'n only that band engaged in this brawl.

ok, then that leaves me to guess the next person i'm pm'ing you

[doppelgaenger]

'i wouldnt take him seriously because women are throwing themselves at him'

hahahaha

[NLL]

ok, then that leaves me to guess the next person i'm pm'ing you

yeap .......thats it

[RdHrshyKss]

yeap .......thats it

awesome!

[NLL]

awesome!

so what do you think??? now you know. any advice?!