for the men

[sapha1]

if youve been in a long term relationship ,

1) how would you spice things up again?
2) what would you want to see your girl do?
3) what gets you off the most
4) is there anything you would want to try but wouldnt really ask ?

[BreakingPoint]

1) how would you spice things up again?

We try different things sexually. Toys, anal, porn. Never a 3some, because that shows a lack of love in the relationship. We tried different date nights, (Something out of the norm) - and dressing up in the bedroom.

2) what would you want to see your girl do?

Sexually, or otherwise? Because in terms of sex, my relationship is great, it's pretty much everything else that is crap.

3) what gets you off the most

Anal / A2M / Sex toys are always fun. Watching porn and "Acting" out some of the scenes is always hot. Outdoors / public sex is a turn on. Also, if you've ever heard of ChatRoulette, having sex on there, in front of random strangers, is surprisingly very very hot, and makes us both cum really quick.

4) is there anything you would want to try but wouldnt really ask ?

No.

[Ariadne]

Also, if you've ever heard of ChatRoulette, having sex on there, in front of random strangers, is surprisingly very very hot, and makes us both cum really quick.

DX!!!! WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT TO AN UNSUSPECTING PERSON?!?!

I think I saw you on there once Q_Q Are you a really really old guy with some kind of tattoo on your thigh?

[RdHrshyKss]

^^i like your new avatar Ariadne

[girl68]

Well I'm not a man but mine seems to enjoy the following.

If sex hasn't happened for a few days I will send him a flirty text along the lines of "you fiance is very frisky today. I can't wait for tonight" it's not much but it tells him what I want it (sometimes we get "too tired" but this acts like an "appointment" He gets these tesxts often dirty, flirty texts.

I'm often playful at home, I grab his butt often, and moan and say hmm, lucky me, what a great ass. Or just let my hand trail over his package wink, smile and say something flirty.

I'll tell him that my boobs are cold and that he should warm them up. Or say that I worked out my ass extra hard and he should check to make sure I wasn't lying.

This just keeps us feeling desired and wanted, which leads to the good stuff. And in bed, it's pretty much the obvious, mix it up, have fun, play around, moan, bring different things in... umm I've dressed up too.

[Legato]

Well I'm not a man but mine seems to enjoy the following.

If sex hasn't happened for a few days I will send him a flirty text along the lines of "you fiance is very frisky today. I can't wait for tonight" it's not much but it tells him what I want it (sometimes we get "too tired" but this acts like an "appointment" He gets these tesxts often dirty, flirty texts.

I'm often playful at home, I grab his butt often, and moan and say hmm, lucky me, what a great ass. Or just let my hand trail over his package wink, smile and say something flirty.

I'll tell him that my boobs are cold and that he should warm them up. Or say that I worked out my ass extra hard and he should check to make sure I wasn't lying.

This just keeps us feeling desired and wanted, which leads to the good stuff. And in bed, it's pretty much the obvious, mix it up, have fun, play around, moan, bring different things in... umm I've dressed up too.

ummm...let me know if anything goes wrong between you and your boyfriend.

but....

1) New things. Sex tape. Dirty talk.
2) Sexy lingerie. Toys.
3) Sexy lingerie. Toys.
4) Standing 69.

[RdHrshyKss]

ummm...let me know if anything goes wrong between you and your boyfriend.

uh oh, do we have an alpha male on our hands here? lol j/k j/k

[girl68]

ummm...let me know if anything goes wrong between you and your boyfriend.

what is that supposed to mean? he's so damn happy he's marrying me oviously I've done a pretty good job.

[RdHrshyKss]

what is that supposed to mean? he's so damn happy he's marrying me oviously I've done a pretty good job.

i think he meant it as a compliment...to give him a shout if things between you and your fiancé don't work out

[girl68]

The "ummm" led me to believe it wasn't a compliment. But ok!

[RdHrshyKss]

The "ummm" led me to believe it wasn't a compliment. But ok!

i think he was taken aback by how turned on he got reading your post

another dude to add to girl's fan list

[Legato]

i think he was taken aback by how turned on he got reading your post

another dude to add to girl's fan list

Pretty much right but it was more of a joke than anything. I wish my ex would have done that stuff. Congrats to you and your fiance.

[girl68]

Thanks legato!

[kopite]

if youve been in a long term relationship ,

1) how would you spice things up again?
2) what would you want to see your girl do?
3) what gets you off the most
4) is there anything you would want to try but wouldnt really ask ?

1) Id say try some new positions. Maybe incorporate food. Deserts yum yum.
2) I suppose it can differ for guys and girls but one thing a gf of mine once offered was to have 3some. (She was actually gay at 1 point btw) I didn't really like the idea and I actually started to go off her after she said that.
3) This is just me but I love it when a girl uses her tongue to play with my ear. And also flicking the tongue on my neck. Get's me going big time.
4) Wanted to try anal but never had the balls to ask. Never did in the end and to this day I still haven't tried it.

[Boisdevie]

1) how would you spice things up again - anal, toys, a bit of bondage
2) what would you want to see your girl do - suck and swallow, I'd love to see her masturbate to orgasm
3) what gets you off the most - having sex
4) is there anything you would want to try but wouldnt really ask - not had courage to ask for anal YET