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    casual sex encounters

    Okay ladies, here's the scenario: You're single and shopping at the store. A handsome man approaches you and tells you he finds you incredibly sexy and he would love to do naughty things with you behind closed doors. He's not looking for a monogamous relationship, only casual sex. You notice that he's very direct and confident in expressing how he feels and what he wants. Would you entertain having casual sex with him within a day or two of meeting him? Or would you need to go on a few dates with him first?

    The reason I'm asking is because I want to attract women for casual sex, without having to go on alot of dates and "getting to know each other" for days or weeks before sex. I'd like to meet a woman, and within the first few minutes of talking with her, let her know upfront and honestly that I'm attracted to her and that I want to have casual sex. I appreciate women and think they are the most beautiful creatures on earth. So I would like to know what can I do to make a woman feel comfortable with the idea of casual sex without having to do the traditional dating thing, and without making her feel like a whore or slut for doing so. Thanks.
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    It's called a night club. It's pretty much what they're for. But be prepared to get a few drinks to the face.

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    To be honest, I would think there was something wrong with a man who made that sort of approach (especially in in a non-drinking environment). It's utterly lacking in finesse, even if it IS honest.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Hey there, I'm a guy FYI.

    Walking up to a woman in a store and telling her she's sexy and that you wanna do naughty things to her is just about the creepiest thing you can do and you won't have any luck with that. You'll send off all the wrong messages with that kind of approach. Where's your common sense? You might as well just pull your dick out and start wanking in front of her.

    You seem to have unrealistic expectations about women. You can't "make" a woman comfortable with the idea of casual sex. It also sounds like the word "seduction" is not in your vocabulary.

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    I'd look at him in disgust and then tell him to eff off. I'd be totally creeped out.

    If you are looking for that kinda thing, then dating websites that cater for people looking for 'no strings' is your best way to go. You would find like minded people on there.

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    Well, nothing wrong with being that direct, in some cases, not in a store, and it's not good either since some women are creeped out by such things, are married, gay etc. But I'd feel seriously creeped out if a guy walked up to me in a store like that, no matter how hot the guy was. So big no-no.

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    Hell no. Like my vagina, you'll need to work me up to the good stuff an approach like that is like shoving your thick dick into my dry vagina... it ain't gonna happen.

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    Kevin, everything that you have ever read in the Penthouse Forum is wrong. It's all fantasy and lies. What you are looking for is going to cost you at least $200 an hour.
    Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.

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    If you are able to find a woman who will take you up on that offer free of charge, she probably would have ghonnaherpasyphylaids.
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    its called a brothel.
    that would be creepy

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    My GF is a very beautiful woman, and over the years she has been approached by all sorts of guys who think they can score. Your approach is considered creepy by most modern women. It's a turn-off no matter what you look like. You would probably get a "no thanks" if the girl were cool, or a slap in the face if the girl were hot-headed (like my GF). Women are build differently. They are more emotion-oriented than men. In the rare event a beautiful woman is so attracted to you so quickly, she's really not looking for casual sex, but rather, want to explore you more. Trust me, hot girls know that they are hot, and know that they have LOTS to choose from. Why would they settle for casual sex when they can have more? It's usually the really unattractive, damaged, low-esteemed girls who would by into that casual-sex-for-attention thingy. So if you want to have a beautiful woman for casual sex only, as the other members mentioned, it's gonna cost you some $$$. The pros will treat you right.

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    Your best bet for that sort of thing is an escort service. Rare to happen in normal social situations.

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