is it wrong to date some1 a few year younger than you?

[JasonRebel17]

ok i was just wondering is it ok to date a girl that is like 4 year younger than me?? for ex: im 17 is it ok to date a girl that is 12?............yea i know its a stupid question.......well wat u think? like if the 2 person love each other and the guy is like 17 and the girl is like 12-14?..............lol

[CBinKC]

No it’s not okay to date someone that young. Number 1, it could land you in jail. If you don’t see that as a real possibility then you aren’t old enough to date either.

What you really need to ask yourself is why you’re attracted to someone so young? Do you find it easier to be the dominate one? Is it a need for control? Or, are you just sexually attracted to a girl who is still going through puberty?

You can’t really say that it’s her and her personality. Who we are as people goes through a growth spurt from puberty to mid-20’s. If you start seeing her now, she’s going to be a different person in only a few months.

My advice is that you keep this girl as your fantasy for now. In a few years, come back from college and ask her out. Give her a little time to grow up.

[Nice Lover Boy]

No it’s not okay to date someone that young. Number 1, it could land you in jail. If you don’t see that as a real possibility then you aren’t old enough to date either.

What you really need to ask yourself is why you’re attracted to someone so young? Do you find it easier to be the dominate one? Is it a need for control? Or, are you just sexually attracted to a girl who is still going through puberty?

You can’t really say that it’s her and her personality. Who we are as people goes through a growth spurt from puberty to mid-20’s. If you start seeing her now, she’s going to be a different person in only a few months.

My advice is that you keep this girl as your fantasy for now. In a few years, come back from college and ask her out. Give her a little time to grow up.

Diddo I'm with you all the way.

[King Zarathu]

Yeah it's ok if you're a sick perverted ****. it doesn't change the law though *prison*

[Innova]

Yeah that is a bit much, she's just barely into her teenage years. As you get older, yeah its more acceptable to date a few years young, like say an 21 year old dating a 25 year old. But 17 to 12, thats a bit much. That in the psychology world makes you a pedophile. Because you are at least 16 and she is 4-5 years younger then you.

[Fishy]

legally speaking, no sexual activity until 16-18, depending on consent laws locally.

Socially speaking, it's generally unacceptable at that age. In 10 years, it will be completely different though.

[King Zarathu]

Does that mean in 10 years you'll be a child molester?

[sfalexi]

BTW,

Just FYI,

"diddo" above should be "ditto". Just for future

Alexi

PS - Seriously not being mean or an asshole, just that it's such a commonly used phrase that I figured you might want to know that you spelled it wrong cause if I spelled something wrong, I'd rather someone tell me then have people out there think I can't spell.

[Junket]

On top of the fact that's just weird, let's inrease the ages, say, 19 and 15. Why would I say this still wouldn't work despite the obvious legalities? Teens at and around 15 are still goin' through plenty of changes and one couldn't really expect a serious relationship like that to last very long.

[King Zarathu]

Frasbee, we should go out and find us some hott sexy 3 year olds.. mmmm'mmm

[Junket]

Frasbee, we should go out and find us some hott sexy 3 year olds.. mmmm'mmm

Hey, we can't leave JasonRebel out of the loop, this would be right up his alley.

[King Zarathu]

Right. After all, it's only a few years age difference.

[sfalexi]

I have a 12 year old sister. She has 12 year old friends. They are NOT ready to date a senior in high school. And if I found out that some seventeen year old tried to take out my sister, I'd **** up his world.

[King Zarathu]

HAAHAHHAHAHAAHAH!!! i love that shit. i ****ing LOVE that man!! HAHAHAHA! that's so beautiful

[moeburn]

In Canada, there can be no sexual activity between people when one of them is under 16 and the other is over 16.