Im Inlove with a married woman

[Luken07]

I'm Inlove with a girl whoes married but she loves me too shes 9 yrs older than me. I'm 17 while shes 26. we already had sex once. the problem now is there was one night wherein i admitted to her that i had kissed someone else. after that night she really acted weird and wont meet up with me as often as before. the reason why i admitted to her that was because i thought i could just forget about her after kissing someone. but i guess i couldn't. she's still in my head all the time till now. But now, she completely doesn't want us to be in a so called "Relationship". but i dont want that to happen. when i ask her if she loves me she says she does. but she doesnt want things to be more complicated for her. i really love her. i just dont know what to do. please give me advice on wat i should do. either positive or negative it would be a great help. thnx!.

[doppelismyfriend]

Standard. If someone else came to you with this, what would you say?

"Cut contact. Find someone else."

[MerryH]

"Guys, help. I'm dating a married woman but she won't commit to me."

Find someone your own age who is also single.

[Bella82]

Luken, how can she be in a real relationship with you if she's married?! You kissing someone else is completely irrelevant -- she's MARRIED. And not only that, but she's unfaithful and she's proven that: is that the kind of woman you want to be with? Tell her to get her sh*t straight and forget about this relationship.

[Luken07]

thnx alot!. u got a good point there bella =)

[Luken07]

but she also mentioned that, she could go to annulment. but she said it was to early to do that. and she also said i was her first time doing this. but i really don't know if i should believe that. which till now im sure im not her first.

[xxazurexx]

Ask yourself why you want a relationship with a woman who has no hesitations in cheating on her husband.

If she will cheat on him, she would cheat on you!

Find a decent woman, rather than be focusing on some cheating slapper who likes to bed young men behind her husbands back.

[Luken07]

i thought of that too. but what if she really does love me?. i mean they're are chances right?.

[xxazurexx]

i thought of that too. but what if she really does love me?. i mean they're are chances right?.

Did you actually read anything I said??

Read it again and absorb it.

[DDD]

"Guys, help. I'm dating a married woman but she won't commit to me."

Find someone your own age who is also single.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

What Merry said! Any relationship that is built upon the foundation of infidelity is doomed from the word GO.

[DDD]

Find a decent woman, rather than be focusing on some cheating slapper who likes to bed young men behind her husbands back.

HOLLA !!!! This is the best answer I've seen yet on this.

[Luken07]

Wew, still confused. T_T

[Gribble]

Marriage is meaningless. So long as she doesn't have kids feel free to enjoy yourself.

[Kaius]

The age difference, marital status, and all that drama is really not a way to start a healthy relationship. She may love you, but she must have loved her husband too in the early days.
If she is willing to divorce NOW, then that means she is committed enough to ditch her past life and be with you. If she makes excuses, then she is only playing the field right now.
She is far more sophisticated than you....no doubt. Don't take it seriously for your own sake. She's not the type to spend your life with.

[Luken07]

well were already friends now. we had a little sincere talk. but it didn't seem to be sincere to me. but anyway, do u think it would be a good idea if i come bak for her in the future?.