Lies.

[KimberlyH]

I keep catching my BF Lying to me about things. and he keeps putting the blame on me saying i dont trust him, which i dont but i have every right not to?
He says hes scared to tell me the truth so he just keeps lying, i dont want him to be though

[Ariadne]

If you don't trust him--and it sounds like you don't have a reason to--then you don't need to be with him. What is he lying about?

[KimberlyH]

Just stuff about what hes doing. He's got 2 lives its like, hes got a seperate e-mail adress for MSN and he's blocked me on it and i found out about that and he says he doesnt go on that no more but he does..

[Ariadne]

Dump him. There's no good reason for him to be sneaking around behind your back. He's either cheating or he's doing some kind of shady business that you don't want to be involved in.

[xxazurexx]

Once you catch them out in a lie, you can't ever trust another word they say.

[KimberlyH]

I know but he blames me for snoopin round, yeah maybe i shudnt but i trust my gut instinct coz its more than 90% true..

[xxazurexx]

He says hes scared to tell me the truth so he just keeps lying...

If he has nothing bad to hide, then why lie?

If you can't trust him, ditch him. Plenty more guys out there and who you would give you no cause to distrust and snoop.

[KimberlyH]

Thats what i said to him but he just changed the convo..he thinks il be angry with the truth so he doesnt tell me

[doppelismyfriend]

I keep catching my BF Lying to me about things. and he keeps putting the blame on me saying i dont trust him, which i dont but i have every right not to?
He says hes scared to tell me the truth so he just keeps lying, i dont want him to be though

Some people lie compulsively, without any direct reason for doing so. My personal standards would prevent me from being with someone like that.

[Applesauce]

lol, are you here for advice or are you just going to keep making excuses for his behavior?

[doppelismyfriend]

lol, are you here for advice or are you just going to keep making excuses for his behavior?

It's ironic, considering the problem she came here with.

[doppelismyfriend]

Blahhhh I need 15 posts...

[doppelismyfriend]

Blahhhh I need 15 posts...asdfasdf

[Button Moon]

How can you feel able to trust someone who lies to you, then tells you there is something wrong but won't tell you, then asks you to trust him? Seriously, your bf needs to grow up

[KimberlyH]

lol, are you here for advice or are you just going to keep making excuses for his behavior?

I get what you mean , Its just when I ask him he tells me the reasons so I kinda take them into account. He makes me think its wrong to have any issue with his behaviour.