OK, I'm so lost right now Ill take advice from anywhere (hence why I'm posting my problem to all you lovely people XD)
I'll start with some background info, I am 21 and yes I am a virgin (this is because my ex cheated on me and only felt comfortable with a girl this past year) I am currently going out with a girl I love very much, we've been dating for 9 months now actually (yea men laugh at no sex for nine months, I do but this isn't what is bothering me.)
Our friends all say we are perfect for each other because the way we are in personality ect just compliment each other in every way, and we have beaten some long odds such as I'm the first boyfriend she has ever had that her mum actually likes, recently however we have gone back to university and she just has not been putting any effort into the relationship at all and keeps expecting me to run around after her, it gotten to the point where I literally feel like the pet dog and I suppose Im looking for some advice on how I should tackle this problem (infact it was my birthday last monday and she dint even bother to come out or get me a card).
Also if anyone wants to give me some advice in the sex department at moment I'm ready for her but she seems to come up with nothing but excuses or just comes out with a downright no, again though although this bother me its the problem above for the advice Im really after.
this was also probablly in the wrong section so sorry if it is.