I have a pretty high sex drive and the wife has a particularly low one (with absolutely no kinky side whatsoever). To make things worse, it takes a while for me to cum during both oral and vaginal sex so either she gets to the point where she gets too sensitive during sex and she stops me or her jaw gets tired and she stops.
It's gottn to the point where we've both developed complexes about our sex lives. For me, on the one hand I understand our difference in drive so I try no to initiate sex but on the other hand the times we do and she stops me and pushes me off, I feel rejected and not loved (especially since I give my 110% to give her oral due to her hypersensitivity with intercourse). And for her, she constantly feels that there's nothing she can do to satisfy me and that I have high demands and that when the weekend rolls around she feels more pressure knowing that we might have to have sex.
She says that she does enjoy intercourse and oral for me, but just in much shorter times. I don't know what else we can do. We've had so many talks and arguments but nothing really changes. I try to give her ideas and tips for oral but it goes back to the circular argument about me being too picky and her not being able to satisfy me. I try to masturbate more often but I still want to have intimacy with her but even those times aren't really intimate.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? I know that there's probably not much I can do in my situation, but I'm curious if this occurs in other relationships.