This is gonna be kind of long sorry...
Im a freshman in college. My first class on my first day i saw this girl walk into class that was pretty good looking and caught my eye. I hoped she would sit by me but she didnt. So through the day i realized we were going to all the same classes. On my way to my last class of the day i realized that she was going to the same class as me again. So i got some courage and asked "are you going to such and such?" she said "yes" and i told her how i realized that we had all the same classes. She said she was glad she met me because she didnt wanna walk alone around campus between classes. after our last class i walked her to her dorm and she gave me her phone number. i thought that was a pretty good sign. So blah blah blah, its been a month now and we sit with eachother and walk together to every class. i learned about 3 weeks ago that she had a boyfriend, after i looked at her facebook. i was bummed but i figured they werent getting married lol so i guess i could wait. so this monday, the topic of our english class was about relationships. she said something like "ugh i cant stand hearing this, i just broke up with my bf" and i said oh really? i didnt know u had a bf (but i did cuz i saw it on her facebook lol) she said they had went out for 4 years. i asked her about the breakup today and she didnt really wanna talk about it, she said she is just ignoring him. i guess they got into a fight. but i am pretty sure its final if ur thinking they might go back out. When should i ask her if she wants to go out? i dont think she even likes me but isnt it worth a shot? im not good with this kinda stuff, ive really only had one gf and that was last year and it didnt go far. i really dont think she likes me but idk if she was just like that cuz she had a bf before. btw, shes a girl that has alot of male friends, which really makes me second guess myself too. no girl has every really liked me except for my one gf, but i think she was kinda weird anyway. im not like a weird kid or anything, im not a player, i try to be as much of a gentleman as i can be, im a nice guy, but i guess what isnt going for me is my looks. im not the most confident guy. i dont think im really that bad looking, i guess im just nothing really to look at. idk. its hard to be good looking in college going up against guys that have bigger biceps than ur head lol. no girl has really ever looked at me as someone to have a relationship with. i wanna tell her how i feel but i get very nervous. it took me all day just to man up and ask her how the break up was going. she really didnt wanna talk about it but she said that she is just ingoring him. i really dont know how to go about this because i really have never been in a relationship or been liked by a girl before. Im pretty sure she doesnt really look at me as bf material, i think we are just kinda school friends. but i have partied with her once, but it wasnt really anything special, thats another story lol. we text eachother a good bit but it just pretty much revolves around school. how do i go about seeing if she even likes me, or asking her out? i dont think i have enough balls just to ask her face to face lol. is it a bad idea to text her or chat her on facebook and tell her how i feel? in high school i never pursued girls because i knew they wouldnt like me, im in college now and i wanna have a better college experience with girls than i did in high school. idk what the hell to do, any and all info will be really appreciated, i feel like a loser having to ask this online but idk how the hell to go about it