don't know what to do anymore

[DAWN_AGE]

Hi all.

realy need some female advice for this
well every advice is welcome.

if got a realy good friend ( female ) i just like her her so mutch.
we have been friend's for over 4 years now.
but it heppend a few month's back,
she met my bestfriend and she kinda liked him a alot ( still respect that )
but before she was dating him we had someting going on to. ( to bad nothing seriuus )

but sins a few weeks back there was some trouble going on ..
so i had to choose between them but i diddint choose a side ( dont want to have problems to )
because some people where saying that he used her for sex only
but i did not know if it was true ...

but ever sins that happend i dont doubt it if it was true all the story's where leading to the same thing ( to use her for sex )
so they broke-up but sins two days ago he & her are back to gether and there is trouble now already

also alot of people say that i would match up better with her ( then him )
but i dont want to end there relationship even all she would do that if i tell her i think the same way ( that i'm starting to think that he is use'ing her )

so.....my question is should i go talk to her ?
and if i do that what im a suposed to say to her?

best regards dawn_age ( or for short : Yoeri )

[MerryH]

No, don't talk to her about it. It's really none of your business. And it's not like you'd be telling her that completely out of the goodness of your heart - you're trying to break them up so you can get with her. That's what it would look like, anyway. Let her figure out her bad decisions on her own.

[DAWN_AGE]

okay i will not go talk to her thx

but she espect's me to tell her every thing
should i in this case just ignore that and then just let her figure it out ?

because i have the feeling that maybe if i go talk to her i can finaly
go sleep normaly so i dont have all these thought's i my mind
because i care about her so mutch