Females finding it difficult to orgasm during intercourse?

[accodata]

Is it normal for females to find it very difficult to orgasm during intercourse? To the point of not being able to orgasm during intercourse (despite very much enjoying it) but being able to orgasm during foreplay? How can a female tell a man this without feeling like she's dysfunctional? I don't want to fake orgasms but I don't want to man feeling like he's bad in bed either. Or will it happen eventually and I just need to find out what works for me during intercourse? All suggestions and advice would be greatly appreciated.

[vashti]

You CAN orgasm during foreplay? This suggests that you are receiving clitoral stimulation during foreplay, but not during sex. Most women require prolonged, direct clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm during intercourse - there isn't anything wrong with you. If your partner feels inadequate because he isn't doing it correctly, TELL him what to do.

[Harry2010]

has anyone ever done it when the girl is on... it sounds discusting to me... one of my ex'z tried to initiate sex but i was like arent u on?

[accodata]

Harry2010, What do you mean by 'on'?

[Raven_Skye]

I think he means on her period? Have done it myself, once or twice. My ex wasn't bothered by it, but I myself didn't like it so it stayed at those few times.

Anyway, about the orgasm during intercourse? It's normal for women to not be able to have orgasm just from internal stimulation. Nothing dysfunctional about it, no matter how many porn flicks might tell you otherwise. having intercourse with clitoral stimulation at the same time can give you orgasm, but not always either. Funny thing is, you don't need orgasm cause just the intercourse feels really amazing, but try telling a guy that. *sighs*
Don't fake it, is not worth it. Just tell the guy the way it is with you, and most women. He'll understand, if not, he's an *ss.

[kats86]

You just need a moderate amount of foreplay, then sex....and continue with clitoral stimulation, works every time

[Gribble]

Sex is tricky. You women aren't built to enjoy pure intercourse. Inferior design. Too much effort wasted on the aesthetics and not enough on functionality.

[loudrims_inc]

shyt.... i make my girl cum like 4 times a day 7 days a week

[ShannonMI]

shyt.... i make my girl cum like 4 times a day 7 days a week

Shut the f*ck up dude.

[WICKED THOUGHTS]

Mmm dont have sex for like a whole month. Then have him romance, tease, forplay you and make sure he or u dnt touch sensitive parts on ur bod. You guys do this as long as u can Good luck

[Only-virgins]

shyt.... i make my girl cum like 4 times a day 7 days a week

It isn't cum. She is just pissing on you.

[doppelgaenger]

Sex is tricky. You women aren't built to enjoy pure intercourse. Inferior design. Too much effort wasted on the aesthetics and not enough on functionality.

That's a nice way of saying that men are the only ones who need to cum for reproduction and the female orgasm is a 'mistake' of evolution; useless, pointless.

Wait, I take that back. The female orgasm is what saves the male from being killed or eaten after reproduction. You get where I'm going with this, Accodata?

[Only-virgins]

Wait, I take that back. The female orgasm is what saves the male from being killed or eaten after reproduction. You get where I'm going with this, Accodata?

Maybe he does but I sure as hell don't know what you just meant.

[Gribble]

That's a nice way of saying that men are the only ones who need to cum for reproduction and the female orgasm is a 'mistake' of evolution; useless, pointless.

Wait, I take that back. The female orgasm is what saves the male from being killed or eaten after reproduction. You get where I'm going with this, Accodata?

My point is that the clitoris is located on the outside. It gets virtually no stimulation from intercourse alone. Poor design.

[Only-virgins]

My point is that the clitoris is located on the outside. It gets virtually no stimulation from intercourse alone. Poor design.

Unless you have hip action like mine during missionary style...oh yea! Other wise that is why I have hands that easily wrap around to strange locations . Why is the female body so delicious and awesome to pleasure yet kept away from me on so many occasions...this is epic ridiculousness.