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Thread: Broke my NO CONTACT!!!

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    Broke my NO CONTACT!!!

    My bf broke up with me 2 weeks ago and I've been sticking to a strict no contact policy. I got weak this morning and texted him. Just a short I miss you. He countered with a "I'll call you tonight.... What's a good time to call"

    Question is am I right to assume this is going to be a bad conversation? Or is there any hope? I miss him a lot and either way I'll either be on a path back to him or it will help give me closure but for now it stinks having to be at work sweating it out, Ugh!!! mY STOMACH IS IN KNOTS!!

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    I think if he has replied you thn he should have for a good reason otherwise if he dont wana talk to you thn why the hell should he replied ..he better should have ignored you if it would have been the case of some ugly stuff..........best of luck

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    YOU decided on NO CONTACT then you text him to say you miss him. Do you want him or not? Time to make up your mind

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    I do want him.... No question about it. I just have a feeling this phone call is going to be bad since he is the one that broke it off with me. I'd really prefer him to just ignore my text or send a short response back if we are just going to have the same break up conversation over again, ya know?

    Either way this will help me move on in which ever direction, I guess I hate the waiting.

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    be patient otherwise its likely you will end up creating a mess n loose him forever

    i did same n ended up messing everythng

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    you can't really do much in the meantime which is so frustrating.... but when you get on the phone just stay calm. i know it's obvious to say but in situations like that your mind's everywhere. relax
    They called us a dead generation,
    They told us that we wouldn't survive
    They left us alone in the maelstrom
    As you can see we're all clearly alive.

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    I know I have to play it cool and all and I will. I just don't want to have the same break up conversation we had 2 weeks ago if that's all he's calling for. I don't see the point. It's just rubbing salt back in the wound.

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    wow. well let us know how it goes.
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    Well, what did you expect to happen?

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    What did I want? Him to say I miss you too and that he wants me back. Expect..... If he doesn't feel that way not to have another conversation about it.

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    so what happened??

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