Quite a long story with my ex....
We got together in january, I met her on her first night out in town after she'd turned 18, I was 23 and the first person she'd been out with. We dated until the middle of April when she became more and more distant then suddenly dumped me saying she didn't feel like she could be herself around me and didn't feel like she could be in a relationship anymore. I took things badly and had a go at her for not saying when something was wrong etc, then wwe stopped talking for a bit. A few weeks later we started talking again and agreed not to see anyone until after her exams and that we were going to give it another go then, then suddenly she stopped texting me after two weeks and then said "I've met someone else and have moved on, I hope that you can do the same", so I said fair enough and got on with things and didnt contact her again, but kept in touch with one of her mates, who said the person she met she didn't even go on one date with, it was just someone she quite fancied.
Then in the first week of august, she messaged me on facebook saying she was really sorry for the way she acted and basically wanted to meet up, so we met up again a couple of times, and everything went really well. She asked if I wanted to go on holiday with her, and since things were going well I agreed, so we booked up a week away together. As soon as I booked it she became quite distant and started acting strange again, then for the majority of the holiday she acted really distant and didn't like me trying to kiss her etc. I assumed she just wanted to be friends because of this but one night we had sex, which was a big deal, because we'd only had sex once before which was when I took her virginity. We discussed getting back together a few times, and she said she didnt know what she wanted and when she knew she'd let me know, even if it was just to be friends. When we got back things were going well again, then after a week she suddenly stopped replying to my messages, so I lost my patience and said forget it basically, then she said she didn't feel the same anymore, and I asked why she didnt tell me like she said she would, and she said she wasnt 100% sure until I text her saying to forget it and it turned out she'd been telling me one thing about getting back together and her mates the complete opposite. Anyway I said being friends wouldn't work so we left it on good terms. I texted her today asking her about something and basically got the cold shoulder again for no apparent reason, 3 weeks after going on holiday together! Any ideas why she's acting like this?