My boyfriend and I got into a huge fight today and he isn't responding to my texts.
I'll make it short:
-Currently we are long distance, all I asked for was more of his time so we can keep the lines of communication open since we don't see each other, what else do we have going for us?
-What gets me, is he'll call and text, but in the middle of our conversation he'll stop responding... there is a big time difference so granted he may have fallen asleep or whatever.. but he NEVER says so. The next day he acts like nothing happened and starts a new conversation.
But when I didn't respond for a hour one day, he got mad.
So after that I explained to him how I feel all he said was "I am sorry and I love you"because he had a family emergency with his little cousin being sick and having to drive the family cross country to get to another hospital for special medical treatment .. yeah right? ..this isn't the first time he lacked to respond but it's the first time he gave a reason.
-He responded like I was asking for all of his time 24/7. Thinking that I am needy he basically told me to "toughen up" "suck it up" and be strong since the situation we are in isn't ideal.
-He said if I couldn't do that, and if I couldn't trust him 100% that we were done.
How can someone ask me to trust them 100%? This isn't my first time in a relationship. I've been made a fool of before. And trust, is just not something I hand out like candy. It has to be earned.
He also said how he doesn't always have time to respond to me, but I am like if you don't have 30 seconds for a text, why are we doing this? I told him, I needed that communication with him daily because I want this to work and if he does too he'll find the time to talk to me once a day. And I also said, if doesn't think he can or he won't then maybe it's not the time for us...((( that's when he stopped responding )))
I texted him telling him, I didn't want to fight and that I loved him.
Because I do, and all this seems so silly to me now.
So right now I feel angry that our relationship would end over such a little thing that can be fixed. But then again at the same time I don't want to be in a relationship when I have to beg for 30 seconds of their time.
What should I do now? What if does not want to respond to my texts because he thinks we are already over?