i found out my wife was having an affair 2 months ago (this is her 2nd affair that i know of). we are trying to make our marriage work and desperately want to have a happy family life (we have 2 young kids); but i cannot get rid of the feeling of hurt - i am now in the position where i'm paranoid all the time and feel like i am pushing her away and making her life unhappy (i'm not much fun to be with at the moment thats for sure)
...i dont know why i'm even on a forum sharing this but i guess i'm at a loss as to what to do and hoped there might be people out there with some helpful advice based on their own experience
Thanks