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    girl brings a guy on a date with me... what does it mean?

    I asked this girl out twice. the first time I asked her out, she brought her guy friend out too so we didn't get to talk much. she gave me a call at the last minute and said that her friend would be joining us. then I asked her out again and she brought the same guy friend out with us. why did she do that? i felt disrespected. they ended up talking to each other most of the time with the occasional chime in from me. should i ask her out again?

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    you could ask her out and tell her that it's gonna be only the two of you or not at all. if she doesn't like it, then find another.

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    Of course not. She doesn't even want to be alone with you.

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    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    She's a dud. I hope you didn't pay for both of them.
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    it's one of two things: either she's not that into to you or she's scared of you
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    girl brings a guy on a date with me... what does it mean?
    It means that she wasn't on a date with you, she was on a date with him.
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    You're in the Friend Zone, and she's bringing her boyfriend along so he doesn't worry about you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 View Post
    You're in the Friend Zone, and she's bringing her boyfriend along so he doesn't worry about you.
    when she called me, she said he was a friend and she didn't mention he was a bf.

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    OK, You asked her out...and he came with her. Please don't tell me you paid for the evening?

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    So are you bisexual?

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    The third date rule is probably not going to be applicable in this situation.
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    get a clue son. it means: NEVER GONNA HAPPEN.

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    It means she sees you as a friend only at this stage
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