Mutual Breakup

[Raze]

So, I broke up with my gf. I ended up seeing her yesterday and I was absolutely unattracted to her and I felt sick the entire I was with her. I think all the stress got to me and I couldn't deal with it. Anyways, I'm trying my best to get used to being single again. It kind of sucks but I'm feeling okay about it. The breakup was mutual... there's not much more I can say about it.

[lahnnabell]

Okay. What caused this sudden almost-revulsion towards her?

[Raze]

Last few times I saw her, I just didn't have any attraction towards her. She has gained weight and she had no motivation whatsoeve to lose weight. She doesn't take care of herself in that sense. Also, she's stuck.. She has no motivation at all. I felt sick to stomach leading her on so I had to break up with her and she felt the same way.

[lahnnabell]

You guys haven't been dating that long, dude. How much weight did she gain in such a short amount of time? And no motivation? To do what? Work, earn money, continue her education? You were ALL ABOUT this girl like 3 days ago.

[Raze]

All the above. I know. I feel better though. I think it was the idea of having a gf rather than liking her. I just feel better.. a lil' lonely but better.

[lahnnabell]

Wow. Okay. You seriously need to do some casual dating. It's really a bad idea to get into a relationship with someone for sole purpose of "having a girlfriend" and quelling loneliness. As you can see here, people tend to get bored rather quickly and want to move on at the drop of a hat. It's not always so easy to break up with someone, especially when the other person might be heavily invested. So, really make an attempt to understand that you are affecting someone else's life when you do this.

Sudden attitude changes like the one you just had irritate the shit out of me. It's usually the result of immature guys that really don't know what they want. You were pretty frustrated by the whole parent issue though, so I suppose it's no surprise you guys have split already.

[Raze]

Yeah that got to me too. I couldn't deal with it anymore.

[kitkitkitty]

All the above. I know. I feel better though. I think it was the idea of having a gf rather than liking her. I just feel better.. a lil' lonely but better.

i'm sure we'll all keep you entertained

[girl68]

someone has to say this: your mother was right all along.

okay so now that you know that... DATE.

[Raze]

someone has to say this: your mother was right all along.

okay so now that you know that... DATE.

I know uuuugggghhhh.. Parents... lol.

I'm trying to get back on my feet.

[Raze]

i'm sure we'll all keep you entertained

You guys always keep me enterained!

[girl68]

alright next time give them a bit of damn credit instead of tying your panties in a knot okay? you don't have to agree just tell them you see the point and will keep it in mind.

now, run along boy and get some friends I think you said you had none.

[Raze]

alright next time give them a bit of damn credit instead of tying your panties in a knot okay? you don't have to agree just tell them you see the point and will keep it in mind.

now, run along boy and get some friends I think you said you had none.

I do, I just won't be able to see them till November for my old school's homecoming. They live like 150 miles from me. lol.

[girl68]

I don't care where they are.

MAKE FRIENDS HERE. (wherever you currently are) you say you're loney- yeah lonely cause you don't have friends, then you say you don't need 'em because you have them back home? WTF.

[kitkitkitty]

are you broken hearted, Raze? like, really upset? i know it's mutual but...idk. you're making a good job of sounding alrightish, but this is online.