If I say something crude to get me rejected by a girl

[sl9801]

If I say something crude and sexist to get me rejected by a girl that I'm dating, such as "I want to f*** you" and if I have therefore committed a wrong against her and abused my male privilege, then why not donate all my money away and commit suicide? Isn't that simply taking personal responsibility for my actions for me to apologize for patriarchy and similar to a Wall St rich man giving away money to the poor for all his wrongdoing and oppression?

I don't understand why so many women feel guilty when their boyfriends commit suicide, because why feel guilty? He's doing you a favor by being one less f***ing oppressor in the world. It's his fault for abusing male privilege against you and suicide is therefore a moral decision on his part.

[nerdy_guy]

If its a moral decision, then why do morons like these go into all the hassle of making sure their girlfriend is well informed of the suicide BEFORE he does it? It not a moral decision, its further oppression and selfishness. They're making the girl feel guilty by their own actions.

[Mish]

What was the question?

[nerdy_guy]

What was the question?

He's asking why idiot people who make other people guilty for their personal enjoyment is not getting any thank you notes

[sl9801]

If suicide is a form of psychological abuse against women, then another form of reparations is needed by men for the injustice of male patriarchy, one then that does not result in suffering upon women but feminist liberation.

We as men have a duty to provide reparations for women because we have wronged them through our undeserved male privilege (I would recommend something like donating much of our salary and assets to rape victims or women who have been domestically abused). We are responsible for much of the suffering that women go through, and some form of compensation, or a giving up of male power is our duty.

If I were a girl, I personally would be happy to see some form of justice given to these male abusers in porn, or male CEOs of these magazines like Cosmopolitan which make teenage girls feel insecure, or some male Wall St CEO who makes a profit from the capitalistic oppression of women, or any man who has verbally, psychologically, or sexually abused a woman.

I don't think that a man giving up his power to a woman is anything that a woman should feel guilty about.

[nerdy_guy]

Apparently you haven't heard of FEMDOM.

[Mish]

He's asking why idiot people who make other people guilty for their personal enjoyment is not getting any thank you notes

Why should idiots who make others feel guilty get thank you notes exactly?

(What kind of a troll are we dealing with here?)

[VincenzoG91]

If suicide is a form of psychological abuse against women, then another form of reparations is needed by men for the injustice of male patriarchy, one then that does not result in suffering upon women but feminist liberation.

We as men have a duty to provide reparations for women because we have wronged them through our undeserved male privilege (I would recommend something like donating much of our salary and assets to rape victims or women who have been domestically abused). We are responsible for much of the suffering that women go through, and some form of compensation, or a giving up of male power is our duty.

If I were a girl, I personally would be happy to see some form of justice given to these male abusers in porn, or male CEOs of these magazines like Cosmopolitan which make teenage girls feel insecure, or some male Wall St CEO who makes a profit from the capitalistic oppression of women, or any man who has verbally, psychologically, or sexually abused a woman.

I don't think that a man giving up his power to a woman is anything that a woman should feel guilty about.

sl, why don't you stop trying to speak on behalf of real men, and just go cut off your penis. You don't seem to be using it anyway.

[nerdy_guy]

ooohhh... He just needed to blow it out his ear. Thanks Mish!

[sl9801]

sl, why don't you stop trying to speak on behalf of real men, and just go cut off your penis. You don't seem to be using it anyway.

I have tried in the past to play that game, where for some reason it's supposed to be a guy's role to go out and get laid and all that and personally, I find that kind of pointless and counterproductive.

What is really needed between men and women is honesty and communication. I know from personal experience that I do not need to get laid or have sexual skills to assert who I am. I have realized that trying to pursue that lifestyle just resulted in me feeling insecure and getting taken advantage of by other men.

I am proud that I was able to stand up for myself and leave that lifestyle, where it was expected of me to conform to this social ideal that a man's worth is whether he can get laid or not. I realized just how shallow and fake that thinking was.

I believe that feminism is the greatest gift to men. This comes from my personal experience of having been part of a feminist group. Now if men use feminism for male self hatred (like I was yesterday, not being exactly in the right state of mind), that's one thing. If however, men use feminism for humility, to give up grandiosity, that is totally different.

I am proud to challenge the male norms in society and be proud of my differences! I enjoy expressing my feelings to people I trust and crying out emotions. If I ever do find companionship with a woman and have children, I will not be ashamed to cry in front of them. Because I personally have found it so empowering. Much more empowering than trying to "suck it up" and be "tough" which in the long run, and then cover up emotions with alcohol. That I would see as pretty self destructive and weak.

[girl68]

you don't need to say anything offensive to girls to get regected- all you have to do is keep on talking ^ that crap.

[lovefool87]

For a person with a vast vocabulary, you aren't very intelligent. I think your skinny jeans are cutting off the circulation to your brain.

[Mish]

What is really needed between men and women is honesty and communication.

You say it as if it doesn't happen

I know from personal experience that I do not need to get laid or have sexual skills to assert who I am.

And no one is forcing you to. No one's holding a gun to your head saying "Get laid or else..." Jeez, take it easy dude. You are lucky enough in this world to have personal choice and do whatever you think is good for you (many others in this world unlike you don't).