Still embarrassed but only two questions left to answer

[TXChris]

First of all I want to sincerely thank each of you for all of the great input. My girlfriend and I have reached an agreement. She won't keep pestering me for details if I answer two basic questions for her. 1. "BEFOREHAND WHAT DID I THINK IT WOULD BE LIKE TO LET TWO LESBIANS TIE ME DOWN AND SPANK MY BARE BUTT?" 2." IS THERE SOMETHING IN MY PAST THAT CAUSED A DESIRE TO BE SPANKED IN THE FIRST PLACE ?"

So all I need to do is come up with the courage to give her honest answers.

Thanks Again
Chris

[the_robot]

You don't expect us to answer this for you, do you?

[VincenzoG91]

These are safe answers, but she may not believe them:

1. I thought it would be fun.
2. No. It was their idea. See #1 above.

[QueenofCorona]

Its obnoxious of her to keep pestering you on this. You shouldn't have to feel embarassed and you definitely don't owe her anything on this matter. The fact that she doesn't respect you enough to lay off is the bigger matter at this point. I'd have flipped my lid by now.

[TXChris]

No I don't expect to get the answers here. The first question is easier than the second

[TXChris]

Queen Corona

Part of me feels that way but since this caught her off guard and our relationship seems to be growing stronger by the day I can see her side as well

[Gigabitch]

Do you need help figuring out the answer to the second question?

[TXChris]

Giga
Probably I am thinking back. When I was 13 I spent the summer with my aunt and two female cousins. I got home 6 hours after I was supposed to. My aunt had called hospitals and police. I walked in she hugged me and said Thank God you are OK. Then she came b
back with a wooden hairbrush and proceeded to blister my bare butt in front of my two cousins ages 12 & 14. It hurt and was humiliating as Hell. That was my sole experience with spanking up until now.

[the_robot]

Giga
Probably I am thinking back. When I was 13 I spent the summer with my aunt and two female cousins. I got home 6 hours after I was supposed to. My aunt had called hospitals and police. I walked in she hugged me and said Thank God you are OK. Then she came b
back with a wooden hairbrush and proceeded to blister my bare butt in front of my two cousins ages 12 & 14. It hurt and was humiliating as Hell. That was my sole experience with spanking up until now.

And that made you want spanking? O.o

[TXChris]

I don't know if that is what made me want a spanking. It is the only spanking experience I had. Maybe the fact that there were multiple frmales. I remember that being 13 I got an erection...Hell I don't know

[Gigabitch]

I remember that being 13 I got an erection.

That's usually where a spanking fetish starts, as I understand it, especially if you were bent over something and some rubbing occurred.

[the_robot]

That's usually where a spanking fetish starts, as I understand it, especially if you were bent over something and some rubbing occurred.

You are kidding, aren't you?

[Gigabitch]

You are kidding, aren't you?

No, I'm not. Where do you think spanking fetishes come from?

[TXChris]

I was bent over my aunt's lap. My cousins loved it. My uncle was in the military and overseas. Being 13 and the only male in an all female home I thought I was a big deal. Of course thanks to my darling cousins every kid in the neighborhood knew every detail by noon the next day, including the girl I had a crush on.

[TXChris]

I have to say from a psychologica;/development stand point Giga is right no. That experience is the most likely cause.