My boyfriend of 3 months wants me to move in with him. He lives in a beautiful 4 bedroom house, has a brand new car, a great job in the medical center and takes really good care of all of his possessions. After two weeks of dating he bought me a puppy (my mom never liked dogs, so this was my first one) and mentions marriage and kids all the time.
These were all great things when we first started dating (i'm 23, he is 26) but I feel like he is pressuring me too soon. Some girls might jump at the chance, but I am afraid that he isn't the right guy for me. It's the right situation, but the wrong person.
John (fake name) is really sweet but I feel like he has nothing other than work and me going on in his life. I, on the other hand am an introvert and I have hobbies and interests that don't necessarily involve him. I have been single for 2 years prior to dating john, and I am used to doing a lot of things on my own. He, on the other hand, wants me around all the time and even goes so far as to partially smother me when i am sleeping (by wrapping his entire body around me)
John is also divorced. Which wouldn't be an issue (both of my parents are divorced) except I feel like he has a life checklist: Job, House, truck, wife, kids, and I am just a part of the checklist. Sometimes I fear that if I agree to move in with him, I would be selling myself short.
Although I am an introvert, I do have an outgoing/funny/sarcastic social side that many people really enjoy about me, so I really appreciate people who make me laugh, John doesnt make me laugh at all. His attempts at humor include repeating jokes that I have already said, yet totally milking them.
So he is great on paper, but has no personality. He isn't funny, which makes me feel like he isn't too smart either. Not sure what to do, please help me out :/