Your Top 2 Love Languages

[Junket]

27% Words of affirmation
30% Quality Time
7% Receiving Gifts
3% Acts of Service
33% Physical Touch

This makes total sense to me. All I ever want from him is to spend time together doing things, and to be acknowledged silently by touch. We are a very physical couple, in the sense we constantly touch each other.......a hand on the shoulder, a hug, sitting close together, and of course a lot of sex lol. When when stand next to each other, one usually has their arm around the others waist or something. I've noticed this, it's our way of connecting. We also do a lot of things together, even everyday household things.

I don't consider him doing things for me a major part of what makes me feel loved. Especially when it comes to things around the house.....we both have a responsibility to do those things. It's not 1950, household chores are just as much his job, just as household repairs are just as much mine. I also don't value gifts as much as the other things on this list. I know people in terrible relationships who buy each other shit to make it look like they care.

What I'm trying to get at is not just what people here value, but to think about what it is their partner values, or what their partner thinks you value, in regards to how they express their love.

Like Lahna said, I think a lot of young guys think they're supposed to shower women with gifts, and while a woman may appreciate it, she may not value it as much as he thinks she does.

You, Blue, probably have a pretty solid relationship with your fiance, but I just want to remind other people to look outside of what they themselves value.

People often assume their language to be recognized and reciprocated, and that's not always the case. It takes some extra effort (and clear communication), if a couple's language don't match up exactly.

[xxazurexx]

Words and touch.

My ex hubby was gifts.

[Junket]

I'm bumping this because I want to see more votes.