Would you forgive someone for rejecting you? If he/she came back into your life months/years later and wanted to try something with you would you still want to try something with the other person (assuming you still have feelings for him/her)? I feel like his rejection was just nasty a few years back. He was really mean to me... Do I forgive him and try something now?
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04-08-10, 02:12 AM #1
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Would you date someone who had rejected you before?
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04-08-10, 02:18 AM #2
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I wouldn't. There are billions of men on the planet. You don't have a bitter history with most of them. Pick one of those.
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04-08-10, 02:28 AM #3
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it would depend on the situation...that happened to me, but its been hard because they already know some parts about you so maybe it would be different for you, but for me it seems like our relationship has progressed differently than others...
my bf sent me this message 1 1/2 years ago when he was leading me on and said that a relationship would never work, yada yada...and 8 months later we started dating....Last edited by lilxcutie53; 04-08-10 at 02:32 AM.
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04-08-10, 02:30 AM #4
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nope. (i just read the subject line)
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04-08-10, 02:39 AM #5
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I think it would depend on the situation. If he rejected you because he wasn't ready to date or had other personal issues. then maybe. If he was just being a jerk for no reason- then I would probably tell him to **** off.
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04-08-10, 04:39 AM #6
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No I wouldn't.
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04-08-10, 04:58 AM #7
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I probably would, and then I would probably be resentful and it wouldn't work out.
Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.
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04-08-10, 05:15 AM #8
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Depends why. What Kayla said.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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04-08-10, 05:35 AM #9
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Ask yourself why on earth would somebody just pop up back into your life and want to try something if it's been months and years since you guys last talked? Assuming they didn't want to take things slow and get to know you again, who you are today, as opposed to who you were then and just jump into something? Red flags all over the place.
I really want to believe that people do change, I just don't like the feel of this.Waking up next to a beautiful girl,
Step outside and say hello to my beautiful world.
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04-08-10, 07:16 AM #10
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NOPE! If he was mean with his rejection to you, why give him another shot. There is a right way and a wrong way to do everything and he chose the WRONG way to turn you down.
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04-08-10, 07:28 AM #11
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Given what you said- no I wouldn't date HIM.
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04-08-10, 01:10 PM #12
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If he was all nasty about it, I'd go out with him, kick him in balls, walk away and never talk to him again.
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