I have been "seeing" a boy for about 4 years now. When i say seeing i mean meeting up secretly spending time together and occasionally sleeping together, but there is more there and i know it but he just wont admit it.
it started with him coming over one day randomly and led on since then. In the 4 years i have had several relationships with other guys and just hadnt seen this guy for the duration of the relationships. He has only had 1 relationship and he cheated on her with me. I have ha jelous girl shout abuse at me for being close with this boy and he has stuck up for me. He has met my mum (and she loves him) and has spent time with me just for the fact of spending time with me, but he doesnt seem to want a relationship and because of that i feel that he is using me (even though in the 4 years we have slept together 3 times)
what do i do?
any personal questions to do with this i am happy to answer!