What should I do??

[xxjessxx82]

HI, I'm 16 and I went to Panera and thought this kid Alex was hot, so I left him my number and he never called so I called him a week later and he explained how he had a girlfriend and he said to visit him and then I went to and a worker told me his last name without me asking. So I found him on facebook and he looked nothing like I rememeber and I didn't think he was hot, and he had a girlfriend so it wouln't of worked out. I know why I confused him with this other kid who I've seen his band live, and a lot of people I know are friends with him. And when I saw the band I thought he was SO HOT. That was 2 years ago. But I would of never thought of Dave without the whole Alex thing. So I went on Dave's facebook, added him then talked to him. And I thought we had a REALLY GOOD conversation!! and I facebook stalked him haha so I watched a lot of his videos and saw his pictures and HE IS HILARIOUS and has the same humor as me, he's single, and there's too many reasons to write here. I think we'd be perfect and I don't want to I.m. him again. I don't want to be annoying or desperate. and it's killing me not to, because if he thought it was a friendly conversation, there's no hope. and it makes me want to cry the thought of him not talking to me himself because I like him soo much and I wanna give him my number but that's too much for talking to someone for the first time, and I don't know what he thinks and I don't know what to do. If I should i.m. him or ask him to hang out HELP! :]

[girl68]

guys in bands are usually charming because they know how to chat girls up and get them into bed. More often than not he doesn't want anything serious with you. I suggest you facebook stalk someone else.

[xxjessxx82]

He's really nice and not a douche, and he's xxx so he doesn't sleep around.

[girl68]

then you wait... if no reply he's not interested at which point leave him alone and facebook stalk somone else.

[Raze]

You are so naive, jess. The fact that he has a girl friend won't make you stop chasing him?

[Gigabitch]

I he was interested, he'd take some initiative. How old is he? Maybe you're too young for him.

[xxjessxx82]

Alex?? I don't like Alex.

[soulsurvivor23]

If the guy is really interested, as someone previously said he will show the initiative. But, you're only 16, you'll learn.

[Kayla]

how old is the guy?

again- if he hasnt said anything to you or initiated convo- then leave it alone.

[xxjessxx82]

No well we talked alot and he told me about his past and shit and I've been through stuff, and he's grown from it.

[xxjessxx82]

18 and I talked to him again and he seems into the conversations.

[nerdy_guy]

Sooner or later, he'll know how you're soooo into him. better tell him now and save yourself the agony.