So me and my girlfriend have been dating for a few years now. A little background, during sex, i do not have the best endurance..but in anything else (oral sex), i can last forever, not because it doesnt feel good, but because for some reason i just cant seem to last during sex.. Any advice on how i can increase my performance during sex?
My other issue which really confuses me is this: me and my girlfriend have talked about sex and she claims that she really doesnt care that i cannot last long, as if it doesnt bother her at all. Like when i finish she is done too. weird? however when i go down on her, she enjoys it a lot, but she just gets to a point where her legs are like forced closed shaking saying to stop. if i ask why she says that its like a weird feeling and it like almost hurts with just the slights touch to that area. A few rare times i have continued and its like a switch went on and it appears that she is no longer getting satisfaction and is just like if nothing was going on. Strange? Any advice would be great.