Ask a dude anything.

[xxazurexx]

What is a mans biggest fear and when it comes to the opposite sex?

And, why do you stalk your ex gfs profiles, website, FB, etc.

[TheTooya]

And, why do you stalk your ex gfs profiles, website, FB, etc.

This thread is as a "dude" anything, not clingy kids. =_=

[the_robot]

What is a mans biggest fear and when it comes to the opposite sex?

Being gang raped by a bunch of girls. Oh wait, that doesn't sound so bad... haha

[nerdy_guy]

What is a mans biggest fear and when it comes to the opposite sex?

And, why do you stalk your ex gfs profiles, website, FB, etc.

That is quite a broad statement. pretty much the same fears as a woman I guess. As for the stalking, Well, generally if its more of a regret, we would see if she doing fine (and we might start getting jealous if she is). If it ended up badly, well... we're hoping you'd crash and burn (sometimes we rub it in). And if we have a gluttony for punishment, we hope you'll realize that we were better and you should come back

[Cbrider]

What is a mans biggest fear and when it comes to the opposite sex?

Failure in any form.

And, why do you stalk your ex gfs profiles, website, FB, etc.

To make sure we don't forget their birthday so we can send them a card, duh.

[nerdy_guy]

What quantifies as great sex for a guy?

If you don't act like a blow up doll, then that should be a start. As long as you participate, ask for what you want, try out new things as long as its reasonable then its good to go. Personally, I'd make sure I satisfy my partner since girls generally are harder to satisfy. If I blew her mind, that's the only time I'll consider it great. I'd rather see the girl squirm with delight (I don't wanna see myself squirm, that would be gay)

[Cbrider]

Can you really only think about one thing at a time, or are you just fooling us so we'll leave you alone? My husband seriously cannot seem to multitask. He's very efficient, but it all has to happen one thing at a time.

How can a chef not multitask?

[Cbrider]

What quantifies as great sex for a guy?

When you wake up in the morning and realize that she is just as now then as she was last night when you were drunk.

Claw marks on the back are a plus.

[Charlie Boy II]

For me great sex is when a girl is really nasty. Like she sucks her own juices off my fingers, and wants me to spank her, pull her hair and come all over her. The more carnal the better.

[Gigabitch]

How can a chef not multitask?

A damned fine question. I've actually watched him cook and have come to the conclusion that he does everything that needs to be done one thing at a time, just in very quick succession. Me? I cook like an octopus. I do eight things at once. He's still way faster than me.

[Junket]

A damned fine question. I've actually watched him cook and have come to the conclusion that he does everything that needs to be done one thing at a time, just in very quick succession. Me? I cook like an octopus. I do eight things at once. He's still way faster than me.

I think multi-tasking is bullshit.

I'm very methodical. I also think it helps when things don't go correctly, it's easy to adapt to a situation when you're not juggling 5 other things.

You have 1 problem that needs a solution instead of 10.

[QueenofCorona]

When buying a bday gift for your significant other, do you really want to be TOLD what to get by said significant other or do you not have enough sensibility to pick up on what that person likes/needs? Are you just playing it safe by asking?

[jrharvey]

What is a mans biggest fear and when it comes to the opposite sex?

And, why do you stalk your ex gfs profiles, website, FB, etc.

This is just my opinion here and Im sure a LOT of guys here feel the same. My biggest fear has already happened once so it makes it even worse thinking it could happen again. Guys kinda have to put on a thick, rough, manly exteriorand its expected of them. I hold love, feelings and any such emotion far away so it doesnt get to me if a girl tries to hurt me. I think a lot of guys do this. The problem is getting close, getting attached, ACTUALLY opening up to a girl. Ive dated a lot of girls but only really opened up once. She broke my heart like freaking shattered glass while I watched her leave with another guy. To me, my biggest fear is not what a girl will do but what I allow myself to feel before she does it. Girls get mad a lot about how guys wont open up to them and this is why. Why do guys cheat? You probably think its because we are all walking around with raging boners all the time and can only think about sex. NO, its insecurity. Its because we dont want to be the ones left behind. We dont want to be the ones wondering what the hell happened. I personally dont cheat but I have been really close and considered it many times. I just choose not to stoop to that level.

[xxazurexx]

That is quite a broad statement. pretty much the same fears as a woman I guess. As for the stalking, Well, generally if its more of a regret, we would see if she doing fine (and we might start getting jealous if she is). If it ended up badly, well... we're hoping you'd crash and burn (sometimes we rub it in). And if we have a gluttony for punishment, we hope you'll realize that we were better and you should come back

I asked and because a guy once told me, that a mans biggest fear was the fear of not being able to perform and when he first has sex with someone new. He was a guy in his late 20's. Just wondered if anyone else would say the same.

Thanks for offering up a 'mature' response

[NBT]

When buying a bday gift for your significant other, do you really want to be TOLD what to get by said significant other or do you not have enough sensibility to pick up on what that person likes/needs? Are you just playing it safe by asking?

There are only a few men out there who TRULY know their woman WELL enough, to be able to get her a present that she will love, WITHOUT ever having to ASK her. (My stepfather is one of them.) A man who pays attention, and knows his woman INSIDE and OUT, so he has TONS of options when B-Day or X-Mas time comes up.

As for the REST of us...well, ME, I pay attention...but NOT enough to have tons of ideas in my head when it's time to get a present. I'll think of maybe ONE THING that I know she likes, and try to get her THAT. Or, I'll try & think of something MYSELF that I hope she might like. (A sweet gesture on my part, etc.)

I don't know if I've ever ASKED a female what she wanted for a Holiday (unless it was like, my MOM or something)

With women, I try to go by what I remember, and hope for the best.

If a guy ASKS, he's probably too clueless, too careless, or too lazy to try & think of something on his own, and he probably doesn't pay her enough attention to figure it out on his own.