Getting The Silent Treatment...And it hurts!

[EmilyK]

Hah. Well, that's the thing. I don't know that he was. And, I apologized to him for assuming as much. Even if he was, he wouldn't have done anything wrong. I was just jealous and hurt at the moment and lashed out.

I have never been upset with him before or ever expressed anything so irrational.

I made a mistake. I wish I could take it back. But, I also think I'm entitled to be upset. I explained myself. What made me crazy was his lack of response. Now neither of us are talking and I'm sad about it.

[EmilyK]

He was referring to our conversation and my following text.
He didn't accuse me of lying...I was in a state at the time and thought when he used the word "bullshit", that he meant I was lying to him about something. This response was so angry, I just was thrown off. Like someone said, I'm much more passive at arguments and am not used to this kind of reaction.

[Gigabitch]

Oh, crap. You went off the deep end. I feel for you- I've done some wacky shit before too.

He will probably call you back once he calms down, but I can see why he would be freaked out.

[EmilyK]

Ugh. So, this thread hasn't exactly made me feel better.
It looks like I f-d up a potentially good relationship.
Although, in my defense, I think I wouldn't have gotten so jealous if he hadn't always talked about girls he dated or girls who he thought were hot or thought he was hot. I tried for the entire 6 months to be cool about it but eventually it got to me. Call it insecurity, but I call it disrepectful. :-(

[xxazurexx]

I could be wrong, but perhaps this guy has been looking for a way out and you gave him the perfect excuse to leave.

I know that it wasn't an exclusive thing, you were dating. But you said that you had grown close and then of late you have noticed him backing off a bit ie: not answering your calls/texts, being unavailable to you a lot. You have noticed a change in him, have grown worried about this and it caused you to flip and accuse.

I'm thinking had he been all that into you/he wanted this to work/still had a big interest in wanting to make it work, he'd have done his utmost and to try to salvage this. He wouldn't just act like an ass and disappear....he'd be communicating.