I asked her out, but she didnt reply...what should I do now?

[Bulfmic]

I asked this girl out over msn, because I didnt feel confident enough to ask her in person, and also because I didnt want to end up coming second to someone else, but when I asked her, she didnt reply for a long while and went offline.

Is that basically a no, or is there hope? and is there anything I can do to help it?

Many thanks

Bulfmic

[xxazurexx]

Hard to say.

Although it may look like a 'no' and because you didn't get an answer, she could have also not answered immediatley and because she may be thinking about it.

Is this some girl you know in real life, or some random girl online that you just chat too.

[roy_delene]

ask her in person.

[SpongeBobRoxMan]

She was probably unsure, and is thinking about.it. She didn't say "yes", however, she didn't say "no" either. It's probably best to wait until you next see her, say something like "I'm sorry if I surprised you.last time, but would you like to go out with me sometime?" If she says "no", simply reply "That's okay, I don't mind," or something like that, it will help to make things go more smoothly.

[Bulfmic]

She is a girl I know and am really good friends with, but she has answered and said no sadly, as she said she loves me as a friend...so is there a way to get past the friend zone?? (although I have posted another thread about this so please answer there)

Bulfmic

[Mathias]

She is a girl I know and am really good friends with, but she has answered and said no sadly, as she said she loves me as a friend...so is there a way to get past the friend zone?? (although I have posted another thread about this so please answer there)

Bulfmic

For your purposes, the answer is no.

It has happened, but it's rare and not worth the time/effort.

[l337acc]

...so is there a way to get past the friend zone??...
Bulfmic

Yeah, stop being friends with her..

I don't mean to tell her to F off and that you don't want to be friends anymore. Just see her less and less, and eventually you will become acquaintances, which gives you a greater chance of starting from scratch and utilizing your abilities to cause attraction...

[Bulfmic]

to me, it is worth the time and effort.

and I agree that is probably the thing to do, but I dont want to end up not seeing her, and we have the same circle of friends, so it hard to not see her without having to not see all my other friends

[l337acc]

You don't need to avoid your other friends. Just don't ask them about her. Keep the contact at a minimum (i.e. don't try to confide your deepest darkest secrets to her). Get a life outside of your circle of friends, improve yourself mentally and physically. Eventually she will see a change and realize that you left her behind when she had the opportunity to be with you - and might just accept your invitation next time

[Illusional]

i'd stop wasting my time and move on.


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