Married Happily But Talking Dirty To Other Guys

[CHARLIZE]

Here's the deal I am married happily and love my hubby very much.We do not get to have sex as much as we'd like because there's not much time with a small child.Well he's got his thing and I've got mine.He looks at pornography to do the trick.I go online and talk dirty to guys on a certain website...It is not about hooking up with them which I would never do!It just turns me on to get me off.It isn't about what they look like or me wanting them...It's what they say that turns me on.What is y'alls take on this?Is talking online anonymously to random guys worse than looking at pornography...because I think it is no worse.I have no intentions of cheating and I know I wouldn't and haven't even considered it.

[joe schmoe]

a tricky one..... IMO theres nothing wrong with it but if you were my wife i wouldn't be at all happy about it. Unlike porn you are getting interaction, porn is just images whilst you're getting your kicks chatting to real people so i'd say it was worse but if your husband is happy to let you do it and he trusts you then theres no issue...

do you feel guilty about it??

and which website is it?

[Clifton]

id say its definitaly worse, hes looking at pictures of chicks, your actually talking to other guys with a sexual nature, think to yourself, if he was on the phone with a girl and talking about how he was going to stick his big cock in her mouth, would you feel jealous? if so, then realize its what your doing, and instead, get a vibrator, and use your imagination, or find 10minutes outof the day to ride his cock and get off

[Clifton]

btw, me and my exfiance had plenty of time for sex..with her under 1 year old around..although sometimes shed wake up and stare at us while im calling my exfiance my dirty little girl and shes riding my dick, you comprimise in those situations.

[lworld_love]

I have read your thread about talking dirty and i say you must not do those kind of things and ask your husband not to do those kind of things please you have to think about child imagine if your child knows that you did something like this dont you think it will your break child's heart in the future.

please dont do this it's not like they want to hav sex with your or your husband but it might hurt them.

[CBinKC]

Your intention not to cheat is all well and good but you are putting yourself in temptations way. It’s disrespectful to your marriage.

I suggest you look for a kind of porn that excites you but doesn’t involve other people. I have porn audio tapes that tell erotic stories. There’s “Herotica” material out there.

Or, why don’t you have these erotic conversations with your husband? What man wouldn’t want erotic notes going back and forth with his wife? Or start a notebook at home where you can write stories back and forth.

What you’re currently doing is simply a bad idea. You’re need for interaction could escalate and you’ll find yourself in an affair regardless of your intentions. You might even attract a stalker. Or, this could be very painful to your husband.

[Junket]

I'd have to agree with most of what everybody else said. The fact you're questioning yourself should be enough to realize it may not be the best thing to do. By the way, does he know you do this? If he does and is fine with it than I see no problem with it.

[Laguna]

btw, me and my exfiance had plenty of time for sex..with her under 1 year old around..although sometimes shed wake up and stare at us while im calling my exfiance my dirty little girl and shes riding my dick, you comprimise in those situations.

HAHAHAHAHAHA. That kid is probably traumitized, LOL.

[Junket]

HAHAHAHAHAHA. That kid is probably traumitized, LOL.

At a year old? I doubt it, not yet at least, assuming she remembers these events she won't be traumatized until she understands what she saw.

[Cybog]

P.S. The spiral of resentment, coupled with this wall between you and your "husband" will eventually be your downfall. Either do something about it now, or suffer eventually.

[Junket]

P.S. The spiral of resentment, coupled with this wall between you and your "husband" will eventually be your downfall. Either do something about it now, or suffer eventually.

He makes a valid point.

[Innova]

At a year old? I doubt it, not yet at least, assuming she remembers these events she won't be traumatized until she understands what she saw.

Agreed lol, although funny.

The brain does not function true memory abilites until around the 3rd year mark.

[KirstyM]

Youre not happily married if youre doing this.

It's not cheating exactly... but I sure as hell wouldnt be happy if my partner was doing this.

Take the advice everyone has given you and end it before it's too late.