What is boring sex for men?

[doppelgaenger]

And here I am thinking that boring for men is just a woman who says 'no'.

Actually you're quite wrong about that. For a guy, all the pleasure is in the chase. Men like to insinuate and imply and give innuendos. They like to be sly, cunning, and seductive - without the resistance, this is impossible.

The most boring sex is that before-bed shit - you know it's going to happen, same time every time. Same thing, every night.

[damn2010]

I had one ex- who was self-conscious about her body and would talk about it during sex and try to avoid some positions because of it.

She wasn't fat in case you're wondering, just had a little chub in some areas she was uncomfortable about..........and did nothing about.

And she started questioning when I got back in shape! Sheesh!

[Gribble]

Boring sex is sex with the same chick twice

[JT1920]

On the other hand, many young girls did not have the same sort of exposure to porn that males have, and they may not fully comprehend what their role is, exactly. A good lover guides - he doesn't just f*ck a corpse.

I understand what you're saying but at the same time looking to porn for "how sex should be" isn't wise.

[Gigabitch]

I understand what you're saying but at the same time looking to porn for "how sex should be" isn't wise.

It's a pretty good guideline for what turns men on. It won't teach men a thing, though.

Someone should make an instructional video.

[Yourtoy]

Man on top. BORING. Women in charge and lots of toys. WAY FUN

[ecojeanne]

Man on top. BORING. Women in charge and lots of toys. WAY FUN

thats actually my fav position. i feel all weak and vulnerable to his whims when he's on top and in charge, it's very powerful and a major turn on for me. i like a man in charge.

boring is when i've already cum and im waiting for him...usually me thinking 'come on!'

[Incognito]

I think sex is boring when...

My wife just lays there<<<this doesn't always happen, but hey, sex doesn't always happen.

She insists that the lights stay off because of her insecurity (that is still there after five years, and she doesn't do anything about)<<<lights are ALWAYS off by the way, and that is when we actually have sex.

She refuses to use even try any toys for herself<<<I spend $80.00 on a micro vibrator that straps to my tongue. She let me use it once and didn't want me to use it again because "it is artificial".

It is only done in the bed<<<after five years I have yet to have sex in any other place than our bed (not even the floor in the bedroom)

[SydneyLane]

So it begs me to wonder, what do guys think the ladies should or should not do during sex? What could be done to make it less boring? Specific details greatly welcome.

For the ladies reading the thread, any insights?

A woman who just lays there is obviously not into what she's doing. There's alot could be done.. esp for long time couples who have done it a million times... play games, do it on unsual places (underwater, rooftop, weird places) .. just be honest and be the one to initiate thrill. Hope this helps.

[vashti]

I understand what you're saying but at the same time looking to porn for "how sex should be" isn't wise.

You missed my point, I think. Young females are often raised to think that sex is something that happens TO them, and have no idea that they can actually participate, unless they have been exposed to porn or a very instructive partner.

[Mish]

Young females are often raised to think that sex is something that happens TO them, and have no idea that they can actually participate,

Or if you are my ex, sex is an assault on your sovereignity and you must find a way to defend yourself. She had constant dreams of penetrating the guys instead of being penetrated.

She had issues.

[Incognito]

^^^ Wow! She actually dreamed that she had a penis and f*cked men? WOW.... I think saying that she has issues is an understatement.

[Regnent]

Always being the same.
I know my wife, when interested, is usually late at night. Which, honestly, just doesn't work for me. I'm tired, and late at night isn't my peak period anyways.
It needs to me mixed up, personally.
Random BJ, random quickies anywhere.

Seriously, anything non regular.