I (28) have been married to my husband 6 1 /2 years now. Originally I am from Germany. We met when he was stationed overseas and after a few years and one Iraq deployment he wanted to move back to the U.S. (New York).
I gave up everything for him and followed.
But since Iraq we have had many problems...he was more aggressive, stone cold, and also not faithful. I caught and STD twice as well as the HPV Virus, which in 2009 caused me to have pre stage cervical cancer.
I was very ill for a long time, no sympathy from his side...I was just bothersome.
Now that I am better, I want out! But it is easier said than done...he is determined to keep me so he can continue "fixing" me. I am afraid of being evicted sinc he said I can just get back on a plane to Germany.
I don't want to have to give up my life again, I also want to continue furthering my career and education here, since I did not obtain my degree in Germany..if I go back, then at least not empty handed.
Can anyone point me in the right direction? Provide some info and laws, links...any kind of help would be really appreciated!
Regen