How do you turn an EX into sEX????

[FIFA04]

Just curious if anyone has managed to establish just a purley sexual relationship with an EX- girlfriend or boyfriend? If so how did you do it!! My EX and I are broken up. She doesnt want a relationship with me but she says she's really horney not having sex for a while. She told her friend that she doesnt know how she is going to find a guy that could give it to her as good as I did! She also addmitted that she plays with herself to thought of me

We had sex 4 times after the breakup but now she's shying away. Not returning my calls or anything. I saw her the other day. She said she is not dateing anyone but still wants to be alone for now. She let me get a little physical with her while we were talking(I was touching her under her shirt and jeans) and she didnt back away. But it didnt go anywere. I'm HORNEY AS HELL! We had great sex the last few times. How do I keep this up? Or can I??

[TheRealPsiPhi]

Give her some ****in' space! Damn!

She apparently needs to figure some things out if she wants to be alone. Go find a new piece of ass.

[misombra]

she dumped you. meaning she wants to **** someone else that's not you.

[abercromqt20]

not true.... i have dumped guys and still turned that into purely sex somewhere down the road. think about it, in every relationship somebody is the dumper and someone is the dumpee. If your logic was true no one would ever be able to have casual sex with an ex.

[Illusional]

you simply place an S infront of ex.

raverboy

[FIFA04]

abercromqt20.... how did you and you ex do it? Who brought it up first?

[blue]

when you are a girl and you encounter your ex believe me its not hard!

[abercromqt20]

i dunno exactly how we did it. i think first of all you have to leave things on good terms with them in the first place. And then after that it all kinda just falls into place. you run into each other one night, maybe you actually call each other up and plan to me. but whenever it has happened with me we never actually talked about it. it was always like this unspoken thing. like we both knew what we were there for and we were ok with it!

[Illusional]

blue, it's the same thing with guys.

raverboy

[misombra]

i guess it's a comfort thing. there's a history there and just because there's a break up doesn't mean you still won't look at each other and think sex, just like before, right?

[blue]

illusional, y know what yup! and misobra yup yup!!!!

[Illusional]

after they have been with another person, there is no comming back. i wouldn't have sex with an ex that was with another person. it may just be me, but that's how i feel.

raverboy

[misombra]

so it's okay as long as neither person has been with somebody else? i guess that would turn them from ex sex to sex friend and you can serioulsly mess up a descent break up. i think i'm starting to get this one.

[cbee]

I don't know, am I the only person who won't have sex with an ex. If I've managed to keep a friendship I won't mess it up, which sort of will happen when emotions are involved

[misombra]

yeah. i wouldn't go have sex with an ex either. frankly sex is what keeps me around. i wouldn't break up with a guy who i enjoyed having sex with unless he beats me or cheats on me or something. i assume guys are that way too, so if one breaks up with me i figure it's cause i'm not pleasing them or i'm beating them or cheating on them.

i know, i'm weird.