Well... I am kind of a neat freak in the ways you mentioned. I'm not freakishly tidy, but it really grinds my gears when everything is disorganized and confusing, I don't know what to do anymore. Also, I'm very much a guy of routines and habits... so it's really hard to get me out of the house on a Sunday for example
I don't know, but sometimes these routines go on for so long that it becomes scary to think out of the box and be spontaneous... how about you take the initiative for a few times? Convince him to drop everything and go do something unusual and fun. He may be uncomfortable at first, but there's a slight chance he might enjoy it in the end. If he doesn't... oh well, you tried right?
(Disclaimer: this is more what I wish were done to me than anything else... so... xD)
EDIT - ok, after reading Gigabitch's post. She's right, as usual, but I'm just saying that sometimes this kind of behaviour is not intrinsic to a person, but a custom acquired. Who knows if that's the real him?
Last edited by irrelevant_89; 15-06-10 at 02:43 AM.
Time to stop complaining when there is no reason to. Life's good, man.