Is this an ok text to call it a day? (We aren't going out, but we were trying)

[Young'un]

Been going out with one of my friends sisters, wierd I know, but the friend is older and his sister was my age.

We've been texting for a good few months now, been out once for a bite to eat, been out for a run twice (i'm a personal trainer and she is kinda into her fitness) but that's it.

On Sunday when we were ment to go out and had it planned for weeks now, i text her asking what we were doing to which she replied (not word for word...) that she is out with her best friend for her sisters 18th, fair enough, i didn't say anything, never do.

So now I just want to basically say look, ok, we tried... but this isn't going anywhere.

But I still want to keep the peace!

Is this text ok girls, i'm after some help please:

Hii, instead of me just going silent on you, it's probably best if I say that, if i'm honest... we aren't going anywhere are we? So I think we may aswell call it a day x

If there is anything you think I should change or add or anything, please let me know, i've e-mail subscribed to this topic so will reply as soon as I recieve the e-mail.

Thanks.

[girl68]

I have no clue what you're getting at... you're not even dating her. And if you are, what relevance does going out with her friends have?

[Young'un]

We've been trying to go out and keeping in touch constantly, but I would just like to say that we've tried but it's not working.

[girl68]

no need. if she calls then explain that its too hard.

[Gigabitch]

Why would you even bother to send this text? Are you trying to provoke a response?

[Young'un]

no need. if she calls then explain that its too hard.

So I should just not contact her? Well that was the complete opposite of what I expected a girl to say, thanks for being honest.

I highly doubt she will get in touch though, it sounds petty I know, but I always seemed to be like the one who wanted to talk/go out so don't think she'll get in touch, but I guess that'll show something? Won't it? lol

Thanks girl68.

[Young'un]

No i'm not trying to prevoke a responce, like I said before I just want to tell her that us trying to go out, isn't working, but I didn't just want to cut her off out the blue leaving her thinking why I haven't text, just trying to be nice and think about her feelings... I know I wouldn't like it, but just thought i'd try "Ask a female" and see what you's would say.

If anything, the only responce I would like is "Ok, thanks for letting me know".

Might soudn stupid but I don't want to come across as an iggnorant dick, I actually care about what people think of me.

[girl68]

It doesn't sound like either of your were particularly interested. Don't contact her, there's no need.

[Young'un]

Ok thanks for the advice.

[xxazurexx]

I think you are pissed that this has gone nowhere, hence the need to send this text. To me it's a 'last ditch' attempt text that says 'It's make your mind up time, you either want me or you don't'

BTW, she will know it's gone/going nowhere, so you don't have to inform her of that fact.

[Young'un]

Hi,

Not pissed no, but definitely a little bit gutted.

I definitely won't be sending the text now if it's goign to look like a last ditch attempt.

Thanks again.