21 and no girlfriend,am i just unattractive?

[tjh001]

Hi everyone,

I'm nearly 22 and never had a girlfriend or even been on a date. Girls show absolutely no interest in me. Am I unattractive? Please tell me the truth, if I want people to comfort me I have family and friends.

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[Gigabitch]

The butt-ugly chucklehead who lives next door to me actually knocked his girlfriend up. You are 100 times more attractive than he is. Clearly, it's not your looks that are getting in the way.

[LatvalaFan]

I saw your pic and i gotta say that you are a good looking guy and very cute. xx

[QueenofCorona]

You're cute. You look sort of bashful, I bet shyness/low-self esteem is the actual culprit of your lack of lovin.

[dewilliams2]

Yea....you look like an alright guy to me...keep in mind I am a guy so I really can't say if your attractive to women...but I've seen a lot uglier guys with women. I consider myself a pretty average guy and I never have had trouble with women but I also carry myself with some confidence. I mean don't announce your the best at everything but walk around like your not ashamed to be yourself.

I also advise a mustache....that probably won't help you get a girlfriend but who doesn't want to rock a mustache....you'd look like a police officer and an 80s gay porn star...its the in thing my friend.

Have you asked a woman out? Thats how I usually get dates.

[lastwish]

You look cute. Try asking a girl out.

[Kaius]

hey man, you are not bad-looking dude, so you gotta go out there and present yourself.
Don't make the mistake of expecting girls to approach you. Even girls who like you may be too
shy to do that sometimes. So just go for it man! Don't act creepy though. Just relax.

[JasonG]

I was 24 before I got my first girlfriend and lost my virginity to her. And I never went on dates even before that. So just take it easy because I know the feeling myself and that thought I'd never meet anyone. But you do at some point in your life. If you don't then there must be something your doing or saying that is keeping women away from you or not necessarily away from you but them lacking interest as seeing you as a potential mate.

[tjh001]

I never receive any attention from girls (not so much as an interested glance) and this leads me to conclude that it must be because of the way that I look. Also the only girl I ever asked out rejected me and said I was ugly

[Alvy]

Then she obviously wasn't worth your time if the only thing she cared about was your look. Keep trying, don't stop at just one.

[Jamie789]

You're not unattractive, or weird, or anything else for that matter. You're lucky.

Women are vile snakes who are just out to bleed you dry, beat you down and take you for everything you've got, even if thats not much.

If ever you do get a girlfriend, bear in mind she feeds on the souls of men.

Beware.

[QueenofCorona]

Don't let one immature RUDE girl wreck you. For real. One girls opinion isn't the masses opinion.

[dewilliams2]

You honestly kind of look like this Matthew Lewis...the guy who played Neville Longbottom in Harry Potter...yea I'm a nerd bite me.

I'm tellin ya man...grow a little facial hair.

[bloodtippedrose]

I never receive any attention from girls (not so much as an interested glance) and this leads me to conclude that it must be because of the way that I look. Also the only girl I ever asked out rejected me and said I was ugly

did you ask this girl out in 6th grade? Or was she just a bitch? Youre aimin for the wrong sort of chicks. As far as if Id date you, no. want to know why? I need a guy that can bang me up against a wall and you do not look like a guy that could physically do that. Too innocent like the guy from juno. You need to add a little 'asshole' to your look. girls eat that up ;P

Have you asked a woman out? Thats how I usually get dates.

funny!

[strict machine]

You are not ugly. It's kinda hard to judge from one picture but you actually look cute. Honestly though, your confidence and the way you carry yourself has way more to do with how people perceive your attractiveness.

And I know it doesn't feel good that you haven't had a girlfriend yet, but I actually know quite a few guys who didn't have sex until their early 20s and some of them have yet to be in a serious relationship. There is seriously nothing wrong with them - they're attractive, outgoing, confident... it just happens sometimes :\

Do you go to college? The best way to start dating is to surround yourself with people. Join a club, volunteer, just go out and be around people. I actually kinda like it when guys are a bit clueless - it can be cute. So don't let the fact that you haven't dated hold you back.