Thanks for the advice I guess we both have to take care of ourselves. We always feel we're best for thge other person but only they know whats best for them! I'm still not sure whether to remain my ex's friend. How aboput you? How is your situation? I gues the thing is you can only be true to yourself you only get one life to live so if you think there's no chance have faith (read this on a diffeerent thread) not hope, hope can bring a let down whereas faith is ongoing. Have faith that she may realise the stress she's causing as i'll have faith that my ex see's mine! Always remember the big box which says Handle with care imagine the box is your soul & love and if someone can't read the words then you will have to handle the box yourself till you find someone who can read!
I feel a lot stronger today thats the thing i'm realising when i don't speak to my ex i'm so cool thats probaby why I have never stayed friends with an ex. And your right i'm gonna stick with my friends as the have held me up when i was drowning and will continue to do this till i learn how to swim again!