so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 years and the spark and excitement has died down a bunch. we've both gotten into certain habits in the way we interact with each other. i try being sexy sometimes, but it never seems to go the way i want it to. he doesn't really take it too seriously, most likely my own fault for not making my sexy side as upfront as i should have. we've gotten so used to each other that it feels like we are more best friends than lovers. i love him to death, and i know he loves me, but i need some good advice on how to jumpstart the intimacy department.
we are going to las vegas on May 19th for a few days and i want the trip to be a really good one. we went to aruba last summer, and we had a lot of fun, but i ended up feeling sick during the evenings (due to motion sickness issues) and i was never up to having sex. now that i look back on it, i was in a grumpy mood most of the time and i regret it so much.
any tips on (1) how i can spruce up our love life? and (2) (to the individuals who know las vegas) any suggestions on how to make the trip an absolute success? we are going to see 3 shows the 3 nights we are there, but i'm probably going to book the earlier times to leave the rest of the night open for whatever.
am definitely looking forward to your suggestions . thank you!