GF of 1 year 3 months left me for a guy she met online.

[cmacattack1]

thats very true. but on the second try i wouldnt lock her out. i give her the love she deserves. and if it happened again id be done for good. i hope she does realize and comes back. i dont want to see all that time and love go to waste over a human mistake.

Too little too late. How pissed does it make her that now when she is gone you finally start trying again?

I'm sure it helps to know that you were taking her for granted. Keeping a girl is the hard part, when you lock them out and deny them what they need, you better believe they will find it elsewhere. I hope you learned your lesson from this.

[valaken]

i did learn a lesson. and i know not everyone is the same. i will remain hopeful while moving on with my life. and with me i will take the things ive learned so that my next relationship will be better in every way. thank you all for the input. it really makes me feel better to see that people care.

[valaken]

recently she sent me a text saying "quit drinking so much". i guess her brother told her i was drunk one night. when i wasnt,i do not drink my misery away. just had 2 or 3 with friends over a few hours. i didnt respond to her text. i later got a text saying to quit messaging her friends and stuff on myspace and facebook because they care and love her more than i do. that was all old messages. i stopped all that. so i explained to her that i do love and care for her alot so thats why i quit and left her alone. i then told her that i dont drink like she thinks i do. all she had to say was ok and good. i then said that im always here as a friend for support. she stopped responding after that. shes not coming back is she? i accept that she isnt and i am moving on. but i will hold a spot for her,so that if she returns i can atleast think about taking her back.