Comments and opinions about this situation

[medic_man]

Hi everyone,
I need your opinion about this situation.

I met this really lovely girl a few weeks ago. We text (including dirty texts), ringing me every day,met up a few times and even went to the cinema together. We both shared how we both felt for each other and she even kissed me on the cheek. She wanted to be friends first, I was happy with that and just wanted to see what happens and if it does kick off into a full relationship.

However we had a bad argument over the weekend. That didn't go down well and then come Monday she wanted to meet up with me before I go to work to have a talk. She told me that she was running late and then she told me not to wait for her instead and just go without her. As I was on my way to work, she then turned around and told me that she wished I waited for instead. I just didn't understand that. She then later told me that she just wanted to be friends and couldn't see this progressing any further. I was fine with that but come Tuesday and Today shes been texting me like normal and shes still texting me. Could anyone explain this to me because I just don't understand her.

Comments and opinions please

[Sonrisa]

basically, she was originally interested in you but then somewhere along the way she got frustrated because the attraction is sort of missing. now that she is back to feeling like she needs to connect with someone, she is back to normal. been there done that.

[medic_man]

So what do you think I should do then? Just carry on as to how we were before?

[Sonrisa]

i would continue as friends, just be wary that she at any time can jump off your train and leave you in the cold when she finds something better. girls are such whores.

[medic_man]

Ok cool that's fair enough. How do I know when the moment is the right time?

[Sonrisa]

honestly, instead of wasting your time on a flake, use her for basic needs but do try to find a good girl who'll appreciate you for who you are.

[medic_man]

We have both been honest with each other. I take it by flake you mean someone that isn't too sure what she wants?

[Sonrisa]

honey, how do you know that she's honest with you? really? we are great actresses that's all to it. don't be naive or it might bite in the you know where.

[medic_man]

Well shes told me deep personal stuff about herself. Things which you wouldn't normally share with friends

[Sonrisa]

i am not trying to destroy her credibility, but sharing and being honest are two different things. sometimes girls need to open up and vent, doesn't mean that she'll be true in her feelings to you.

[medic_man]

I don't mean true feelings about me. I mean things about her past and some of the trouble shes had in her childhood and early adulthood

[Sonrisa]

well, but wouldn't you wanna know eventually how she feels about you?

[xxazurexx]

Women will talk to anyone who will listen. I know, I'm one

What you have, is the way that it sometimes goes.

We meet someone we are attracted too, then after a few dates we aren't so attracted for whatever reason and we say 'let's just be friends'.
Maybe the argument has put her off, from being anything more than a friend with you.

[medic_man]

She told me before the argument that she fancies me too but wanted to be friends first and then see what happens. That was before the argument

[xxazurexx]

She told me before the argument that she fancies me too but wanted to be friends first and then see what happens. That was before the argument

What was the argument about? If you don't mind me asking.