Is he still in love with me?

[everybodybutme]

I think he's realizing that the friend thing isn't working and instead of getting his hands dirty and cutting off contact himself, he wants to piss you off just enough so that you'll stop contacting him. Hence the direct coldness. He doesn't treat his other exes this way because you are the most recent.

Stop talking to him. Stop texting him. Stop telling him you miss him. STOP. You will only begin to heal when this dude is out of your life. It takes time but take it one day at a time. Get your friends together and go out. Take up a new hobby. Throw yourself into work or school. You should be free to scream and cry and yell about this guy, but when he is out of ear shot. Nothing you do or say will turn the situation around, so let your friends be your sounding board. This is a new chapter for you.

I've finally let go. Rather chose to let go. I've been thinking about thois the whole day and while I was at the bar with my friends, I decided to let go. I came over at his pace and told him how miserable I was these past weeks. Told him I didn't care if I seem like I'm begging for sympathy. In the end, I told him, Ive come to my senses and now letting go of him. And he said, "Is that why you've been closed off to me these past days?". I didn't answer him, I just said, I don't want to be miserable anymore. And then I left.

Weird how he observed that I was closed off towards him when he's the one making himself distant from me.

[Doc Durian]

Nothing wrong for deciding what is right for yourself and sticking to it... right or wrong. generally for the right...

[LailaK]

Good for you. Now don't talk to him anymore. No contact is no contact. Start healing by cutting him out of your life.

[lahnnabell]

I've finally let go. Rather chose to let go. I've been thinking about thois the whole day and while I was at the bar with my friends, I decided to let go. I came over at his pace and told him how miserable I was these past weeks. Told him I didn't care if I seem like I'm begging for sympathy. In the end, I told him, Ive come to my senses and now letting go of him. And he said, "Is that why you've been closed off to me these past days?". I didn't answer him, I just said, I don't want to be miserable anymore. And then I left.

Weird how he observed that I was closed off towards him when he's the one making himself distant from me.

He's incredibly clueless about his own actions and the attitude he's projecting which is just another sign that he needs to grow up. Good for you, lady