That's surprisingly not that uncommon. My first time I blew in what felt like five seconds. After that, probably the next ten times or so I felt almost nothing and I only got off from oral. It really bugged the hell out of me. I was nervous, I didn't know what to do, and it was different from anything I'd done before. You've got to learn to get off to intercourse. Sex is all about tactile sensations. If, like me, you spent your teenage years beating off to a gigantic library of porn, you're used to getting off from visual stimulation. Don't sweat it. Keep trying. One day it will just click. It'll feel so good. You'll start moaning and grunting in spite of yourself. Your hands will roam as if of their own free will. You'll become totally absorbed in the moment. It's awesome when it all starts to fall into place.
God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
-Mark Twain
If people are good only because they fear punishment and hope for reward, then we are a sorry lot indeed.
-Albert Einstein